We have all had that first time sex experience. What was your first time like? Were you ready? Were you nervous? Do you regret it? Was it exciting and sensual and everything you hoped it would be? After the very first time you continue to experience more firsts. Your first blowjob. Your first threesome. The first time you realized the way you enjoyed sex was different than the way others enjoyed it. And somewhere in there you even experienced your first orgasm. Tell us about one of your firsts.
It was October 1983. I was introduced to a boy by my best friend. They went to public school together. She thought that he & I would get along great together. He was shy and so was I. We were talking the way teenagers do, about sex & school. We discussed ideas about losing our virginity. It occurred to us that most of our friends had already had sex. One mutual friend had already had an abortion. Keep in mind it was the 80’s. A decade of decadence. He & I both were tired of being virgins. We were the nerds of our group. The semi-cool kids, but yet still nerdy. Nerdy glasses, braces. He was super smart in school, me not so smart.
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We went to my Homecoming Dance October 12, 1983. It was that night that we decided to act on our mutual agreement. We agreed on the exchange of our virginity. I had remember seeing those sappy romance stories of young love, young female teens give their virginity away to some asshole who wouldn’t treasure it. I was of the mindset that I wasn’t giving without getting something. I knew he was a virgin because he was too much of a geek, his older brother teased him all the time. My best friend went through grade school with him, he never dated any one-until me.
After the dance on the way home, he stopped & pulled over on a side street under a street light. In the front seat, we kissed. His hands felt me up. I was tense. I remember him putting on the condom. We never touched each other’s junk. He just shoved it in. OMG Sweet baby Jesus that fucking hurt! He was on top of me, vigorously pumping. I’m looking up, the light from the street lamp blinding me. I kept thinking it will get better, practice.
He tossed the full condom out of the window. He drove me home. My father sitting in his chair waiting up for me. I could barely walk. My pussy lips were so swollen. I immediately walked into the bathroom. I thought I was burning alive when I urinated. Jesus! I’m in such pain. BUT I thought this is my freedom. I can’t wait to find out if it can get better.
The story of he & I ended shortly after that night. I wanted more. I wanted to experiment, he thought I was freaky & needy. Years later, we ran into each other again. He was in the Marine Corp. He lived in the city, I would stay over because I was too lazy to drive the 90 minutes home. He would stay at my place instead of his folks house. We fucked a lot. Fucked and Fucked some more. We fucked so intense one evening that we made the bed half was across the room, then one of the slats broke! The last time his name was mentioned to me was when a guy I dated (also a Marine, who had been stationed with him) asked if I knew him. I said “Yes.” The next question was “D told me that you guys made an agreement to fuck each other to pop each other’s cherries. Is that true? Cause that’s some crazy shit.” I stopped dating him that evening. No more Marines and stayed out of the city for a while after that.
Do I regret the agreement? Fuck No. I wanted to be sexually free. I wanted to experience & experiment. I didn’t want to give something so valuable to someone who wouldn’t treasure it. Besides I’ve always said Nothing in life is free. I gave something and I took something.
There are several first’s in my life.
- A first kiss in 1979.
- Feeling in love for the first time in December of 1979.
- My first oral gratification in 1982.
- A first blowjob in 1982.
- First sexual intercourse 1983.
- A first MMF threesome in 1984.
- First time I enjoyed sex “different” from the mainstream -Summer of 1984.
- A first marriage (1984) .
- A first affair (1986) .
- First older man experience (10+ years).
- A first FFM threesome in 1987.
- A first divorce in 1988.
There are a few other “first’s” in my life. My first uncut cock blowjob experience. My first married couple. My first older man more than ten years older. A first taboo experience.
I really should start a list.
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