Part of my life online was doing the shoe model gig for those male fans of mine who had shoe fetishes. I do not have a shoe fetish like they do. I enjoyed it more when the men personally picked out the shoes that they wanted me to wear. I have always enjoyed wearing the shoes, teasing men. I’m a tease. I get off (emotionally) watching them get off, watching their face light up like a Christmas tree.
Some of my closest efriends have shoe fetishes, some of my efriends are men who get off while wearing heels. They all have a common denominator, shoes. I decided to ask some men on a shoe fetish site just a bit about their fetish. To share themselves just a bit. Just for a little insight into this somewhat common fetish.
How old were you when you first noticed being sexually aroused by shoes? That’s a difficult one to answer. In my early Teens I started to notice shoes a lot more, probably as I became more aware of sex. Thinking back however , I can remember being maybe 6 or 7 and being entranced at a Friend of my Mother’s feet .
Do you have any other kinks or fetishes besides shoes? Many 🙂 Lingerie, Latex, Rubber, Equestrian Attire, Wet-suits and Flippers , Gloves.
Where’s there an incident that stands out in your mind during that time of your childhood? I’ll go back to my Mother’s Friend again . I remember noticing that on one occasion she was in tights (or stockings, I wasn’t aware of them at the time) and I was aroused by her nylon encased toes , arch arches and ankles.
What was your first sexual experience with a pair of shoes? I vaguely remember a pair of said Friend’s shoes left under a table. I managed to stroke and sniff them when the room was empty.
What is your biggest turn on about shoes? That would have to be split between pointy toes and killer heels or toe cleavage , possibly dangling.
What is your biggest turn off with shoes? Anything vaguely open toed . Haven’t a clue why given that toes turn me on so much.
Are you in a relationship? If so, how long? 3 years
How many shoes do you possess? 4 pairs of heels , one pair of thigh boots and some runner riding boots.
Do you prefer a specific type of shoe over others? If so, what type of shoe? High heels , however depending on the wearer , anything non-open toed is fair game 🙂
Do you have a secret shoe stash somewhere? I used to stash all my shoes/boots/lingerie etc in the attic as my Ex was too small to get up there.
Do you have a favorite pair of shoes? Why are they special? I have a pair that came from a friend’s Wife’s clearout.
What is the most you have spent on a pair of shoes, for yourself or someone else? $200 on some thigh boots a long time ago.
How have you used shoes/boots in sexual scenarios? Describe if you feel comfortable. I have worn and seen partners in used shoes , its a turn on knowing that the original owner has no idea that you’re wearing them during sex.
What advice would you give to someone who is struggling with their acceptance of their own shoe fetish? Get on the Internet and look up like minded people. There’s a hell of a lot of us out there (Male and Female.) Knowing you’re not alone is a great relief if you’re struggling.
What does the term “shoe fetish” mean to you? That’s another difficult one. Probably the ability to sexualize an item as an aid to arousal.
Is there any drawback to your fetish? Getting caught glancing at woman’s legs and feet 🙂
How do you feel about the way society views this fetish? I think Society in general views any fetish as “not normal.” Probably as everyone has at least one , even if they refuse to accept it .
In your opinion could you explain the difference between a foot fetish & a shoe fetish? The clue is in the question . Not everyone like shoes , not everyone likes feet. If the origins of fetishism are ever explained that will wrap that one up for good.
Does your partner know about your shoe fetish? If so, are they accepting of this? Has it made your relationship worse? How did your partner react when you disclosed your fetish? My last 4 Partners were aware to varying degrees. No negative experiences at all thankfully. 2 actually asked me to wear heels and stockings , the 3rd gave it a whirl once and my current Partner enjoys it with me.
How did you find out about your partners shoe fetish? This was with an Ex. We were out shopping once and she casually asked if I’d do her a favor when we got home. Intrigued I said yes then she asked if I’d wear her heels for her. Having a small collection of heels myself already, I did question if she’s come across them and was testing me. Happily that was not the case and we had many “Shoe Nights” together at her request.
How did your initially feel when your partner told you of their shoe fetish? See above , over the moon 🙂
How would you describe your relationship currently? Blissful.
What advice would you give someone who is currently having a difficult time accepting their partners shoe fetish? Ask them to question why they are having trouble with it. Do they have a fetish themselves? Are they hiding it and thus relating this to their Partner’s admission ?
Are you a man who wears heels? If so, at what age did you begin to wear heels? Probably about 13 or 14.
How do you feel when you wear them? Just plain turned on.
How do you shop for your shoes? Since my Partner is aware and supports it , we shop together. No one ever guesses that one of the pairs was not for her.
Do you think that society will ever being accepting of men who wear heels? Historically we used to be but sadly given the state of the World these days its unlikely.(Unless Dr. Frank-n-Furter lands his Spaceship on the White House Lawn and does the Time-warp in front of the World’s Press)
Have you ever worn heels in public? What was your experience? Only once , in a secluded area late at night. It felt daring and the thought of getting seen was quite a turn on .
Sometimes it’s difficult to get people to open up a lot. However, I am grateful that some members on the site volunteered to answer my questions. I notice that there isn’t a lot of information about the fetish. There are lots of photos, maybe that’s what men want. I have yet to meet some women with a shoe fetish where she masturbates with shoes like the men do. I wonder how many women truly have this fetish. If you would like to share you shoe fetish story, feel free to contact me.