Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs [Product Review]

I don’t own a lot of BDSM sex toys. I’ve wanted to try a few new things. Sexy Slave, an estore provided me with this cool spreader bar kit. Sexy Slave is also providing the prize for the giveaway I am hosting. You still have time to enter! Winner will be announced December 26, 2016.


Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs


Included in this kit:

  • 4 Adjustable Velcro Wrist/Ankle Padded Cuffs
  • 1 Ball Gag
  • 1 Blindfold

Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs from Sexy Slave.

I received a 3 piece doggie style leg spreader that has ankle & wrists cuffs, ball gag and blindfold in the Amazon brown box. Inside the product was in a sealed silver bubble-lined envelope. The product needed two of these bags overlapped to cover the item which was inside a clear plastic bag sealed with a clear circular sticky. The spreader bar was inside and the two items were in separate zip-lock type bags.

The Spreader bar is about 16 inches long. The ankle cuffs are not detachable, secured as one piece of soft nylon material that makes up the bar. There are two separate bars within the securely sewed nylon material that prevent meg movement. Add 6 inches of nylon material for each ankle. Each ankle cuff is lined with a soft thick velour material.

What I liked about the Spreader Bar…..

  • The price is reasonable for the 3 items in this kit.
  • The product arrived quickly from the Seller.
  • The nylon material that covers the bar is thick and doesn’t irritate the skin. The velour material was thick on the inside of the ankle & wrist cuffs.
  • The ball gag has holes through it for easy breathing. It is about 1.5 inches in diameter and fits around the head 16 -20  inches. I like this ball gag better than the hard plastic one I tried before. The gag secures by a buckle.
  • The bar is comfortable to wear, doesn’t irritate the skin. A soft velour material is on the inside of each cuff which also is good for absorption of sweat.
  • Each cuff is secured by Velcro, for a comfortable fit. But the cuffs are secured to the bar by a heavy stitching.

What I didn’t like about the Spreader Bar…..

  • That the ball gag was just a little to big. We had to punch a few extra holes in it to make it feel more comfortable. I did notice with my experience that if the ball wasn’t centered that one side would “pinch” the corner of my mouth and make it a little raw.
  • I do have a concern about the cleaning of the ball gag since the ball is movable and is secured on a section of leather material. I wonder about mold or bacteria growing after the material remains wet and/or air dries.
  • The mask is a kind of cheesy, more like a cheap little add-on. It is thin, light shines through, but not easy to detect items.
  • Not sure how one cleans the bar.


Would I recommend this Spreader Bar kit?

I would have to say yes. Because it is worth the price (less than $20) The bar is sturdy, durable and covered in a thick and comfortable nylon material. The ball gag has breathable holes, thick material and is unlikely to fall apart quickly. The bar is comfortable to wear, it doesn’t irritate my skin. Although I did find that using this spreader is hard on the hamstring muscles if the muscles are tight. Start stretching them out before using to prevent leg cramp!

The company offers a 30 day hassle free return policy

[Disclaimer: I received the product complimentary for reviewing purposes. The blog post may contain affiliate links]

PIDAY Sexy Body Stocking Sheer Unisex Bondage Encasement Cocoon [Product Review]

I love reviewing products that are different & unique. I see and read so many reviews about vibrators & dildos that I decided to do something different. I also thought this unique sex toy product would be good for future photos.

PIDAY Sexy Body Stocking Sheer Unisex Bondage Encasement Cocoon

I was impressed that it arrived within 48 hours of my purchase.

This body stocking cocoon is fairly simple to use. Just climb inside.

It was neatly folded inside a sealed plastic envelope inside the main cover. There were no holes or runs. I did notice that the opening of the nylon cocoon seems like it’s just cut without any seam along the opening. There is a section of vertical lines both at the top and bottom of the cocoon. This seems to be the reinforcement section of the nylon cocoon to guard against runs from the toe and head area.

The Body stocking cocoon is made of  micro-fiber nylon spandex. Which allows it to stretch to accommodate two people. Yes. I tried it with my liege & myself to test the two person ability. The body stocking cocoon passed. We were both naked & fully encased in the cocoon. It’s really soft to the touch, not like same nylon that feels scratchy or rough. The dimensions are 10.8 x 7.2 x 1.5 inches.

PIDAY Sexy Body Stocking Sheer Unisex Bondage Encasement Cocoon

What I did like about the PIDAY Sexy Body Stocking Sheer Unisex Bondage Encasement Cocoon

  • The body stocking cocoon does actually fit two people inside of it without any problems.
  • The cocoon stretches nicely around the body.
  • Feels soft and smooth against my skin.
  • This will make an excellent prop in the future.
  • The price is reasonable.
  • There is only one seam and that is at one end of the cocoon
  • There is no limit to how this can be used. It can be stretched out to be used as restraints, gag. You can have sex while inside this cocoon.
  • Super easy to clean. Just hand wash with soap & water. Air dry.

What I did not like about the PIDAY Sexy Body Stocking Sheer Unisex Bondage Encasement Cocoon

  • There isn’t anything that I can think of that I don’t like about this encasement nylon cocoon. I do wonder if after repeated use if it will no longer have its elasticity.

PIDAY Sexy Body Stocking Sheer Unisex Bondage Encasement Cocoon

If someone has a nylon fetish, encasement fetish this is a good product to own. I’m satisfied with this product. My suggestion is not to handle this nylon stocking with hangnails, sharp or uneven fingernails. Because after all this is nylon and rough edges will be caught on material and may cause a run or hole. Hand wash this. Treat this body stocking cocoon just like a pair of thigh highs or pantyhose.

[Disclaimer: I received this product at a discounted or complimentary price for reviewing purposes. This will not influence my opinion or experience of this product. The blog post may or may not contain affiliate links]

HedoVibes Round Up #121 [Sex Toy Reviews]

IMG_4127-e1444035239209Photo courtesy of Carnal Queen

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.









Butterfly Bliss Waterproof Vibrator [Sex Toy Product Review]

I was excited to receive the Butterfly Bliss Vibrator from Good Vibrations. Anything that vibrates excites me, the anticipation of future orgasms fill my mind. The packing is simple and the vibrator itself is wrapped inside a clear plastic bag, taped shut. 

Butterfly Bliss Vibrator

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My Butterfly Bliss Vibrator is a matte teal color, it’s also available in pink. The vibrator is about 7.25 inches long with 1.25 at the widest part. There is 3 insertable inches of the vibrator with a bulb-like head. The outside of the box does state the insertable tip is 2 3/4 x 1 1/8″.  The bottom unscrews for the 2 AAA batteries which are not included. The control/power button is located at the very bottom of the vibrator. The 3 inches insertable inches of the vibrator is flexible. The Butterfly wings & antenna are also very flexible.

Butterfly Bliss

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What I DID NOT like about the Butterfly Bliss Vibe:

  • It’s operated by 2 AAA batteries.
  • The battery life (even with brand new batteries) is not long. I have already used three sets of batteries. One set of brand new batteries I used in one day after using it for about 2 1/2 hours.
  • Price. It is a bit more than I am willing to pay for a product like this one. At it’s $29.00. Prices do vary depending on what site you are looking at. 
  • Is that the butterfly area must be cleaned very well. Otherwise fluids dry collecting more debris. Make sure to move around the butterfly wings, inspect the lines of the body of the butterfly. Even when I thought the area was clean, I noticed debris had collected, mostly by the wings. 
  • The vibrator can get warm while using it for a while. 
  • The intensity of the vibrator can be hard on those who have health issues with hands, wrists and fingers.

What I DID like about the Butterfly Bliss Vibe:

  • Waterproof
  • Dual power/control button. Simple to use. If you only use the low setting you have to pass the higher two settings to reach the off option.
  • G-spot stimulation while also stimulating clitoris. The intense vibration can be felt in the bulbous head along with the butterfly area.
  • Silicone. There is no bad odor to this product (like I have experienced in the past). It is silicone so it does pick up debris. 
Butterfly Bliss

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The Butterfly Bliss Waterproof Vibrator is a nice little novelty. Not a vibrator I would recommend to my friends. Why? Because I’ve been spoiled with USB chargeable vibrators. Don’t get me wrong, some battery-operated vibrators work great. I just don’t like that this one seems to suck the battery juice down in a short amount of time. 

When I used this the last time I kept thinking “How many hours I have used this? I’m gonna be pissed off if the batteries start to weaken and I’m on the verge of my orgasm!” 

There is also something about the way it “fits” or “doesn’t fit.” “One size” does not fit all. The good thing about the Butterfly Bliss vibrator is that is very bendable. Once inserted the Butterfly Bliss can be slightly angled so that the butterfly’s antenna & wings can surround the clit, if it can (comfortably) reach your clit. Really take time to know your body, because in my opinion this vibrator will not fit every women in the way it is intended to.

[Disclaimer: I received the Butterfly Bliss Waterproof Vibrator complimentary from Good Vibrations for testing purposes in exchange for my honest opinion]