My Black Leather Bracelet [KOTW]

Cockrings.

My experience with cock rings didn’t happen until I was married the second time around. I was in my late 20’s, early 30’s when my current husband & I were still in our honeymoon phase.

He was the one who would suggest that we take a trip to our local adult toy store. We would shop for anything and everything, for new things to try. One time we had gone in looking for a cock ring, something to keep his cock rock hard. I was wanting to fuck after he came. I wanted him to keep his cock hard for as long as I needed him to be.cockring, leather,

Once he had used a string from an old pair of exercise pants. He used the string around his cock and balls, but I was always too worried about him tying off his penis.

So we were on the lookout for a cockring. I don’t remember when we bought the black leather cockring. It could have been anywhere during our travels. I love that it is leather. I wanna say that we bought it during our vacay at “leather in the woods” weekend. My beloved is no help, he can’t remember either. Let’s say that I’ve had it for a very long time.

We used it when we first bought it, but the snaps would rub against me. No matter where he had the snaps it would cause pain. Not only that he said that the ring was just a bit too tight. Since its leather and really cool looking I now wear it as a bracelet. No one has ever asked me about it, that I can remember. I love wearing it.

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I used to have this glans ring on my key chain. And how I came about owning it seems kind of weird. All I will say is that it was given to me because it didn’t fit the person it was intended for.

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Cock rings have always given me a sense of fear. I always had thoughts in my mind of some sort of medical emergency. Pain. So, I would rather not use them. Bottom line is cock rings just scare me, like a ring that is too tight on a finger.

Both of these cock rings that I own are slightly on the small side. I had to find out if the rings are still too small for the men in my life.

This one seemed to fit one of my men, but he mentioned it was feeling fit when he was starting to become erect. He was becoming excited, I didn’t want to waste his hard on. I took my panties & shorts off, climbed on top of him until he yelled “Off… OFF!” I didn’t want to get off of him, but we don’t want to take any chances. I rode him hard his cock felt so filling inside my hungry pussy.

The black leather cock ring didn’t fit him. He is about 7 inches long when fully erect. I didn’t get a chance to measure his girth. He suggested that we should look into different types of rings since he became immediately aroused by this brief experience.

The glans rings didn’t fit him. His head is much bigger, so I didn’t try to squeeze it on to him. The black leather cock ring used to fit him, however quickly became too snug and that’s when I started wearing it around my wrist. Now if you noticed the black cock ring fits around his cock and snaps on the second snap. I think its safe to assume that his cock is just an inch smaller than my wrist and my wrist is 6 1/2 inches around. What does that mean? Not sure.

But I adore the cocks that belong to both my men. Both of them could go without using cock rings. Although both of them have tried using them at different times during our relationships. I’ve experienced men using homemade cock rings such as string, elastic hair ties never a rubber band, thank heaven. Now that I have a bit more experience with cock rings I would be interested in testing out some on my men.

There you have it, my experiences with cock rings.

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Crawl! Get on all fours and Crawl! [kotw]

The first image that came into my mind when I read the prompt for kink of the week was the scene in one of my favorite movies “9 1/2 Weeks.”

When I watched it back then I felt like there is no way I would ever want to crawl for anyone and the money would make me feel like a prostitute. I wasn’t turned on by that scene at all nor would I get turned on by watching someone crawl to me.

If there was a man in my life who felt submissive more than dominant, I suppose I could see him crawling for me or to me. If I’m on the floor with my partner and he crawls to me, it’s not because it’s a sexual thing it’s because he probably is getting closer to me and crawling would be easier than standing up and walking.

Adding to this that my knees are no longer the knees of a 20 something year old. I’m missing ligaments in one knee and this Thursday I will get the results of my recent MRI test on the other knee, which the doctor seems to think I tore the meniscus. So, I am not thrilled to be on the floor crawling on my hands and knees.

I will say Molly’s prompt photo is very sexy, crawling photos? Yes I think those can be sexy. Still not sexually turned on by looking at them.

Molly asked “…those that actively hate the idea of it. Why do you think is?”

Why do I hate crawling? I don’t. I just don’t get in to crawling.  In my mind it makes me degraded more than I care to feel. I don’t mind a good degrading hardcore fucking but crawling on all fours crosses a line with me. I really don’t have a specific reason. The kink of crawling leaves me cold and indifferent. I don’t see it ever being a part of my sex life.

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Satisfyer Pro Penguin [Review]

I have reviewed the Satisfyer 2.

The second clitoral vibrator I received from the Satisfyer family is the Satisfyer Pro Penguin.

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The Satisfyer Pro Peguin is also a touch-free clitoral vibrator that uses the “pressure wave” technology.  The opening of the vibrator is placed over the clitoris to feel the vibrations made from the burst of air coming from the device. The Penguin also has 11 different levels of intense vibrations. However, instead of having two separate control buttons the penguin has combined the control buttons in one central area. Once the power button is pushed it will light up and stay lit until the device is turned off. You can increase the vibrations by pushing towards the button area of the control button.

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Something I do not like about Pro Penguin is that once you have pushed the power increase button you can not decrease the power until you have reached the maximum level. Once you have maxed out power then the Penguin will begin to decrease in its intensity back down to the lowest level.

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The Penguin is a lot smaller than the others. It’s about 5 inches in length and compared to the Satisfyer 2 the opening on the Penguin is larger with an obtuse angled head & neck with a rounded penguin-like body. This device is silky, smooth silicone texture verses the smooth plastic of the Satisfyer 2 and the Satisfyer Pro 2. The white silicone tip is removable for easy cleaning. It is also thinner than the Satisfyer 2. I experienced some roughness from the edges while using this device. I didn’t have a problem with the white removable tip falling off until the Penguin was used on me by my partner. When he would switch hands or move the vibrator around for some reason the tip would fall off. Not once but a few times which broke my concentration.

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After holding the Penguin for a few minutes I noticed that I feel the vibration more in my hand than I did with the other two Satisfyer’s. Perhaps because its smaller and is silicone that the vibration is more pronounced in this model than in the plastic models. This model has rechargeable li-ion batteries sealed inside the body and it comes with a magnetic USB charging cable.

WHAT I DIDN’T LIKE ABOUT THE SATISFYER PRO PENGUIN

  • The white silicone tip is too thin for my liking. Sometimes it fell out while in use or in transport.
  • The intensity/vibrating control button is like being on an elevator, going up (stopping at every floor) to the skydeck looking around and coming back down but also stopping on every floor. I prefer the Satisfyer 2’s +/- control button.
  • Wasn’t too thrilled with the “power on” light.

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WHAT I DID LIKE ABOUT THE SATISFYER PRO PENGUIN

  • I do like the size of the Penguin, the shape is kind of cute. I like the feel the silicone feels in my hands.
  • Contains Li-ion (rechargeable) batteries. The magnetic USB charging cable is included.
  • It is submergible. (Have not tested this device out underwater. I am kind of afraid too)
  • Affordable. Usually it’s less than $50.
  • Easy to clean
  • The device came inside its box that had two separate seals, to assure the customer that the device had not been previously opened.

 

Same Intense Orgasms as the Satisfyer 2.

I enjoyed testing this out as I did the other two Satifyer’s I received. This one was used by both myself during some “me time,” in which I did have some very intense toe-curling orgasms resulting in extreme wetness. I was not disappointed with the Penguin doing its job, I was only irritated when my partner was using on me and the white silicone tip kept falling out. When my partner would move the device or switch hands somehow the white insertable tip would fall out of the vibrator. Of course you are probably guessed how  annoyed I was when that happened, not to mention distracted, interrupted from reaching my orgasm.

After I had reached my orgasms, I decided to just play around with this toy. My partner laid down on his back, both of us had no expectations using this stimulator. His penis was flaccid and I placed the Penguin on his frenulum on a light-medium setting. I continued using my other hand on other areas of his penis. A few minutes passed by, when I felt his penis hardening. My partner reached an orgasm while I used the Penguin on him, just on that area. He shared that it was a different experience, different sensation and pleasurable. I’m not suggesting that the Penguin to used in this manner, I am merely sharing my experience using this stimulator.

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Satisfyer Pro 2 [Review]

The Satisfyer Pro 2 is the final review of my Satisfyer models.

Satisfyer Pro 2

All of the Satisfyer’s use the amazing kind of “pressure wave” technology. It feels like the device head is sucking but it’s actually using bursts of air to cause the vibration against your clitoris.

Each box has two Hygienic Seals on them. One on the edge of the box and the other was on the bottom of the box. A form of reassurance that the product has not been opened or used until I opened it for myself. On the sides of the box were the specs and general information about the device in several different languages.

Inside the box I found the Satisfyer Pro 2 and charging cable. There is a booklet of instructions also in several different languages. The booklet is broken down into Functions/Use, Cleaning, Storage and Material, Troubleshooting, Disposal and Safety Information. There is some helpful & useful information in the booklet. Also if you have any trouble with your Satisfyer Pro 2, there is an email provided.

Out of the three models that I received this one is my favorite.

What I didn’t like about the Satisfyer Pro 2:

  • There is a small circular light that is in between the power on/off and power control buttons. I don’t see the reason for this light, when the power button could be easily as efficient. The light is as bright as my iPhone is during the nighttime mode. It’s rather annoying when trying to use the device with a partner at night. I held my finger over the light while I used it with my partner. (See photo above).
  • There is no lowering the intensity of the vibrations. You must go through 11 settings to the top in order to get back down to the lowest setting.
  • This device like the others is not 100% waterproof. Water still gathers around the buttons. Not sure how much water actually gets inside of the device itself.
  • The noise level seems to be too loud for my liking. I wouldn’t chance using it in a house full of kids or a family reunion just out of paranoia. The noise at its highest sounds like a hair trimmer at the barber shop.

What I did like about the Satisfyer Pro 2:

  • I like the thick wide silicone removable tip on the devices head. The opening is smaller than the others, but for me that channeled the pulses more direct and intense.
  • Easy to wash and easy to clean. The silicone tip is removable and doesn’t fall off or move around during use. With this model the white silicone tip is not placed inside the nozzle or the head, but placed over the nozzle. I like this much better than the other two models I reviewed. (see photos below).
  • The fully charged device can last several uses even over days of not using.
  • The design of this specific device. Compared to the others, I prefer this model and design. The smooth feel in my hands, the size of the device is not as large as the Satisfyer 2 yet it is larger than the Satisfyer Pro Penguin. However, it does seem a bit heavier than the Satisfyer 2, but not enough that it would change my mind not to like it better.
  • 11 different intensity settings.
  • Affordable. Depending on where you but it from. I’ve seen it as high as $100 and as low as $50.
  • That is it rechargeable and comes with its own USB charging cable.

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Would I recommend the Satisfyer Pro 2?

Yes. Yes I would. I would also suggest if & when using it in water not to submerge it for a long time. To try to keep the device’s buttons from getting too much exposure to the water. Masturbation, Satisfyer Pro 2, sexblogger, latina, product review, Clitoral Vibrator

Be cautious when first using this device because the sensations are very intense. Especially if you’re not used such extreme vibration. I had previously mentioned in my other reviews that my orgasms are never disappointing. The orgasms are just as intensely satisfying as with the other models that I have used and reviewed. I would recommend this model above the other two, based on my personal experiences with all of three models (Satisfyer 2, Satisfyer Pro Penguin and Satisfyer Pro 2).

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Satisfyer 2 [Review]

I was expecting to receive one of the Satisfyer products and was thrilled when I received three of the Satisfyer’s to test out. I received the Satisfyer 2, Satisfyer Pro 2 and the Satisfyer Pro Penguin. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to review them together and compare them to each other or to review each one separately. I decided to do each one on its own starting with the Satisfyer 2.

These touch-free clitoral stimulators use a “pressure wave” technology. In which the opening of the stimulator is placed on the clit or the area to be stimulated, to feel what seems like suction, but is really bursts of air. The higher the setting you use the more intense and more vibration you feel on your selected area. I think because of the oval-shaped head and the deeper area pushes the air harder, faster to the selected area.

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I noticed that each box had two Hygienic Seals on them. One located on the edge of the box and the other was on the bottom of the box. A form of reassurance that the product has not been opened or used until I opened it for myself. On the sides of the box were the specs and general information about the device in several different languages.

Opening the box I found the Satisfyer 2 along with a booklet of instructions also in several different languages. The booklet is broken down into Functions/Use, Cleaning, Storage and Material, Troubleshooting, Disposal and Safety Information. There is some helpful & useful information in the booklet. Also if you have any trouble with your Satisfyer 2, there is an email provided. Something that made me wonder about was written under Safety Information and it states “Do not use the product to stimulate any part of the body for longer than 15 minutes.” WHY? What will happen if you do? How do they know it’s 15 minutes, might be 10 or 20 for someone else. But what happens???? I think I might be able to answer that, however let’s continue with this other information first.

The Satisfyer 2 requires 2 AAA batteries to use it. Batteries are inserted at the bottom of the product by twisting to the bottom section to the left. Insert 2 AAA batteries, place bottom back on, twist to the right and now all I have to do is turn it on.

The outside of the Satisfyer 2 is pretty straight forward. There is a circular power button and a long multi-speed power button with a + and – symbol on it.

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Before I used the product I held it in my hand, turned it on & off. I assumed that the on/off button was just a simple push, it is to turn the Satisfyer 2 on, but you must hold down the power button for a few seconds for it to shut off. I noticed that the power button is slightly slanted. I’m not sure if there is on purpose, part of the design or if maybe I pushed it in too hard. If you look closely in the photo below you can see where the button is lower on one end than it is on the other. The power still works fine.

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The + and – button control the intensity of the pressure wave or the vibration. It’s a steady vibration no different rhythms. When you start it you are on the lowest setting. This product has 11 different levels of intensity which are all pretty good. However if you have not used a product like this before it can be a bit intense in the beginning. I can have an orgasm within the first 10 minutes of using this product.

The volume level is a bit on the loud side. I placed it under a blanket on my bed and closed the bedroom door. Windows open, birds chirping and I could just hear a slight buzzing. When the device is wide open (highest setting) it sounds like a hedge trimmer or weed whacker or even a Dremel tool that is just idling.

I don’t like that I was unable to find a price on the Satisfyer website. However, I did find several varying prices through the internet. Anywhere from $49.99 to $29.98 and everything in between.

My Intense Orgasms

I didn’t have any expectations for myself or the product. I thought that because it’s battery operated that it might not last very long. However, so far it has lasted longer than I expected. I used it a handful of times at 20 minutes at a time with a middle to high intensity level and using the same batteries I put in there when I received the product.

I have never had such intense eye-rolling in the back of my head orgasms until I used this device. Generally speaking this device is fairly easy to use one-handed. I did use this device longer than 15 minutes as stated in the instruction booklet. After a while there was a slight burning tingling sensation. Not sure if that was part of the intensity but I rolled with it. It kind of reminded me when I used to go swimming and went to the bathroom immediately afterwards. There was that weird stinging sensation. The orgasms were super intense. I’m not sure if at one point I squirted or peed on myself.  I am 99% sure I squirted. This is not the norm for me. At this point after having so many intense orgasms I really don’t care.  I am never disappointed with my orgasms that I get when I use this device.

WHAT I DIDN’T LIKE ABOUT THE SATISFYER 2

  • The device was not truly waterproof (Photos Below)
  • The control buttons were uneven (not sure if that was intentional or done by me pushing to hard)
  • Battery operated (2 AAA)

WHAT I DID LIKE ABOUT THE SATISFYER 2

  • Easy to clean
  • Removable silicone tip (Photo Below)
  • Slim line design (easy to hold)
  • Multi-speed (11 speeds, from very light pressure waves to very intense)
  • Affordable
  • Lightweight
  • Body safe

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Recommendations & Conclusion

Let’s discuss the main defect of the Satisfyer 2. It claims that it is “waterproof” with a IPX7 rating.Satisfyer 2, sassycat3000, product review, sex toy review, sexblogger, latina

  • The term waterproof implies that the product will not be destroyed, damaged if submerged in water.
  • The IPX7 rating means that the device (should be) is protected from immersion in water up to 3 feet (1 meter).

Knowing now that this product has an issue with water entering the battery chamber, it would be my recommendation that when the Satisfyer 2 is used in the shower, bathtub or a time when water can enter that the batteries be removed as soon as possible after use. That the battery chamber be dried with a q-tip, dried as thoroughly as possible. Possibly stored upright in order for any excess water to drain out.

I noticed that when the bottom part of the Satisfyer 2 is secured, that there is a tiny lip that seems to be in place of an O-ring. Perhaps a clear plastic O-ring added to create a barrier in addition to that other lip already in the body of the product.

If the product is not used totally submerged in water maybe it should be dried with head of product down in order to allow any excess water to drain out and the silicone tip removed (and cleaned).

I would also suggest not using the control buttons while the device is being used under water. There is a likelihood of water leaking into the device while using the buttons.

My Satisfyer 2 still works after the batteries were replaced (with new ones)  from being shorted out due to water exposure. The product continues to work as it did in the beginning, but for how long I not sure.

I will not say do not buy this product, because it is affordable. It does cause intense orgasms. I did enjoy using it, however I am always skeptical when a product says that it is waterproof, requires batteries or has any type of opening with the possibility of water exposure. The product can not truly be 100% waterproof.

I think that the Satisfyer Family needs to consider changing their waterproof claim.

Food for thought: The iPhone 7 has a IP67 rating which means that it is protected against dust & water.  Yet water leakage is not covered under the warranty. And knowing what you know now after reading this review, ask yourself – Would you submerge the Satisfyer 2 under water intentionally?

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Y…because I love that bar

I find myself talking more and more about the dive bar that Charlie & I used to hang out together at. Now Mr. Sam & I hang out there together, it’s still the same ol’ dirty seedy looking dive bar.

I enjoy the fucked up people who go in there who drink their troubles away. I enjoy that “cheers” atmosphere when I walk through the door.

However summer soon approaches and that means that I wont be there as much as I go there during the winter. Summer time is when I stay home, hanging out in the backyard, working in my garden and riding the motorcycle.

I’ve seen bartenders come & go and return again. Some times it’s a long time before you see the same people, other times it’s the same people everyday. Just depends on what’s going on in their lives.

Most of the time my bar friends are willing to lend a helping hand, especially when it comes to my photography. I needed something for the letter “Y” and this is what I came up with, thanks to the little missy in the photo.

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X marks the Spot

Walking down Main St. looking for ideas for photos, I was explaining to my friend how difficult the last part of the alphabet is for ideas.

She  suggested walking a bit further down the street because she noticed something on a building that would work perfectly for the letter X.

It was a pleasant day for a quick walk and then back to the bar so I agreed.

There are several run-down buildings in my dying city, few of them are marked for demolition.

This building will not be standing much longer.

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White (line)

As I was leaving the dive bar, driving through the parking lot I passed by a lone beer bottle someone had set upright on the white line. The first thing that popped into my head was ….

A million magic crystals, painted pure and white
A multi-million dollars almost overnight
Twice as sweet as sugar
Twice as bitter as salt
And if you get hooked, baby
It’s nobody else’s fault, so don’t do it! – “White Lines” by GRANDMASTER FLASH

A friend from the bar had shown me some photos of her favorite photographer, Todd Hido. I looked at some of his photos and completely fell in love with his work. Todd’s work speaks to me on an emotional & visual level.

When I seen the beer bottle standing there I stopped and took a picture. Of course I edited it to try to give it more of a dramatic look. Not nothing to write home about, but I’m happy with it. I like those photos that make a person question what they are looking at or why. What’s the story behind the bottle? I think I may continue with this type of photography (in my spare time, when I have any). Only if my eye catches these type of moments. I tend more often to miss opportunities than to capture them.

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