Someone told me that I need to step outside my comfort zone when it comes to taking my photos, that I need to be fluid. I’m not sure what that means or how to start to change to become more fluid.

While I was taking photos of my friend The Artist, I decided to take a few other photos. He has lots of art supplies, all kinds of paints, sketch pads, canvas, pencils and brushes.

B is for Brushes.

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Photograph [WW116]

What does photography/photograph do for you as a writer? Photographs inspire me sometimes, not all the times. The photo really has to speak to me on some emotional or mental level. It also depends on the background of the photograph. An example of this inspiration is a recent post titled “Missing my Muse.” In which I used a photo that my muse had given me. The photo inspired me to write the post. Something about the photo made me feel something. I had to distort it because I didn’t want to take any chances. However, at the time of viewing it, I missed him. I thought the photo went perfectly with how I was feeling.

I also try to use photos more in my posts to add that extra appeal that so many suggest to bring in more readers & viewers. I do try to use my personally owned photographs more than searching for free images.

Has taking photographs of yourself changed how you see yourself or others? I have read other sex bloggers admit to viewing themselves in a more positive light after participating in blogging memes in which they post photos of themselves.  However for me, I’ve posted several photos of myself, yet I feel no different about myself. I think this could also be due to my “issues.” No amount of photos could make me view myself. I admire & envy the others who can post their photos in confidence. The other issue is that I have a fear of RL family or friends finding my blog. Perfect example of this is recently my oldest son started following me on twitter. This is a bit unsettling to me.  Red and Silver

I have read several bloggers write about finding a niche in the blogoshpere. I had tried several different ones. Not feeling I was able to fit into a specific niche of blogging. I think I may have found something, taking photographs of myself. They are not professional ones, just ones I take mostly by myself or by my Beloved. The photos are mainly a tease, nothing that I would be too embarrassed about posting. Photos that tempt, tease and titillate men. I like being seductive, suggestive and sultry. 

Does having your photograph taken get you off?  Maybe you would even go so far to say it is a fetish or kink for you. LOL. I think this question was written just for me. Because the answer is YES. I get “off” on having my photo taken, teasing the camera. I wish that I could afford a better camera & equipment, along with having someone who knows how to take a perfect photo. Not that my beloved doesn’t but it’s not his best talent. I would say that if my #1 fan lived closer we would have the perfect business arrangement. Because I know he’s got the eye to catch the beauty.

I also get off on the idea that men are looking at my photos and fantasizing. I get off on being that fantasy girl for some men. Men that I will never know about, never met face to face. That’s ok. 

Did a photograph inspire you to try something new sexually? Not sexually, but inspires me to “copy” the pose or theme of the photo. Below are just a few of photos that spoke to me. I attempted to copy them in my fashion, because I felt that there was something about the original photo that was seductive, suggestive or different. I never been one to follow the crowd. I never have been comfortable with sharing my tits or ass.  So I try to photograph myself in a way that requires the viewer to use their imagination or wanting more.  

Feb Photo Fest Day 9

Feb Photo Fest
Day 9



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Day 13

I will continue to take the photographs. I may get to the point when I will stop because the “high” isn’t there anymore.

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Saturday Evening [SS164]

Sinful Sunday

Wondering what he’s doing now

I haven’t been participating in Sinful Sunday as much as I used to. Gotta get back into a routine. I will admit that I have issues with my self-image. Sometimes I feel good about myself, other times I don’t. Recently, it’s been at a low point. However, there are those “admirers” who tell me behind the scenes that that is “nothing” wrong with my body or what I do, how I look, etc.

I remembered that this week’s prompt is a favorite of mine. Black & white. After taking a shower I decided to snap a few images. Using my camera (Samsung WB250) I set it to the black & white photo filter. Snapped away. I lightened up the photo a bit. You can view that one below.


Is he thinking of me, like I'm thinking of him?

Is he thinking of me, like I’m thinking of him?

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Sinful Sunday


The End of February Photo Challenge

Feb Photo Fest Day 28 Last of 2014 February Photo Challenge.

Feb Photo Fest
Day 28
Last of 2014 February Photo Challenge.


I wanna thank Molly for coming up with this really cool challenge. Even though I probably should have used “old” photos. I had more fun, playing dress up. My Beloved thoroughly enjoyed taking the photos that’s for sure, he was rewarded well for his involvement with my completion of this challenge.  He took must of the photos. I really need to get him his own camera. This photo is dedicated to him, it’s his favorite out of the last series of photos he took for me.

Cheers to all the other bloggers who took part in this challenge, left comments and posted some fucking hot photos!



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Day 1 (Feb Photo Fest)


Here is to another challenge. A daily erotic photo challenge. I’m hoping I didn’t bite off more than I can chew with all these challenges. I do know this. I will be keeping myself busy. Before I wasn’t sure what to blog about. Now, I’m overflowing with stuff to do. I am a sucker for black & white photos. Hope you enjoy.


If you have any suggestions for poses for your favorite little kitty to do. Please lemme know!



Winter Landscape [365 Day Photo Challenge]

After being cooped up in my house for about a week, I decided it was warm enough to venture outside. I grabbed my inexpensive Samsung WB250 camera and headed outside.  I drove to a local park that I had taken a few photos for “Sinful Sunday.” I wondered how it would look surrounded with snow. So, that’s where I headed.

Winter Landscape

Spotted what seems to look like a river otter. I forget to zoom the camera lens when I took the photos. This is all about learning, right? So, that’s one lesson to remember. Slow down, breath and zoom. Don’t forget to focus!  I really want to get a second camera, just not sure what I want. I would like it to be a Nikon or Canon, just not a super expensive one. Something, a bit bigger. I just don’t know what. A camera that is easy to use, upload photos with, one that gives a little more professional looking photos. Maybe it’s just the person taking the pictures! I’m sure the more I do this, that I will get to know my camera more and build my confidence taking photos. Mostly just to have fun.

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