Crawl! Get on all fours and Crawl! [kotw]

The first image that came into my mind when I read the prompt for kink of the week was the scene in one of my favorite movies “9 1/2 Weeks.”

When I watched it back then I felt like there is no way I would ever want to crawl for anyone and the money would make me feel like a prostitute. I wasn’t turned on by that scene at all nor would I get turned on by watching someone crawl to me.

If there was a man in my life who felt submissive more than dominant, I suppose I could see him crawling for me or to me. If I’m on the floor with my partner and he crawls to me, it’s not because it’s a sexual thing it’s because he probably is getting closer to me and crawling would be easier than standing up and walking.

Adding to this that my knees are no longer the knees of a 20 something year old. I’m missing ligaments in one knee and this Thursday I will get the results of my recent MRI test on the other knee, which the doctor seems to think I tore the meniscus. So, I am not thrilled to be on the floor crawling on my hands and knees.

I will say Molly’s prompt photo is very sexy, crawling photos? Yes I think those can be sexy. Still not sexually turned on by looking at them.

Molly asked “…those that actively hate the idea of it. Why do you think is?”

Why do I hate crawling? I don’t. I just don’t get in to crawling.  In my mind it makes me degraded more than I care to feel. I don’t mind a good degrading hardcore fucking but crawling on all fours crosses a line with me. I really don’t have a specific reason. The kink of crawling leaves me cold and indifferent. I don’t see it ever being a part of my sex life.

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Will Work for Heels [KOTW]

High heels. Ever since I can remember my mother as always told me “You have beautiful feet and gorgeous legs, you should try to always wear heels.” I think because my mother was short and had Barney Rubble feet she wanted to live vicariously through me. I did listen to her advice (most of the time).

Then I met my Beloved, who also told me the same thing. In 2008, I hit a low point in my life. My beloved had mentioned me taking some photos of my legs in nylons wearing heels for him to wank to when he was in the mood. I complied. My self-esteem was still low even after all his attention and compliments, he suggested I use one of the photos as my avatar on an old social media site I was on at the time.

So I did.

The attention I received was addicting. I was first approached by a gentleman who I refer to as “Papi” who asked me if I would consider modeling for him in a pair of shoes who would send me. Wait. What? I recieved a pair of Guess Black peep toe sling backs and a pair of two-tone brown Charles David pumps. I took the photos and a video for him. I emailed him the photos that my Beloved had taken. Not quality photos images, of course but its all I had to work with. There was one little thing, the shoes had been masturbated with and had cum inside them.

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Thanks to my 818Shoe Papi for giving me these shoes!

I know, some of you are thinking…GROSS! Not me. Oh, its not my fetish, but I do get off on the attention. I get off on knowing that these men (that I have never met in person) buy shoes with me in mind and masturbate with the shoe and then send them to me.

Oh I did forget to mention “MarkX” who invited me to check out a website he had found. MarkX masturbated while wearing his own pair of high heels and dressed in panties. MarkX is the only one (so far) that I have sent my shoes, panties and leather clothes to. He masturbated with my items, heels included and returned everything back to me. I got off on know he was jerking off to my things. When I joined the site he suggested it snowballed from there. It was a shoe fetish site that had several different categories of shoes, even men in heels, Trannies in heels, trashed heels, you get the idea. There were a few women on the site, but after a while of getting bombarded with emails it was overwhelming and I pretty much let it go.

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I have met several interesting men through that website, most have disappeared. However the high heels they sent to me, most of those still remain. I was thinking about donating some of them. They’re old and worn out and I just don’t have the room in my closet for them anymore. I don’t wear them as much as I did either. That’s due to my broken foot and soon I’ll have to have a surgery to fused the bones in my foot. No more heels after that.

I can’t stop myself when walking into any store that sells shoes to go and look at them. I love looking at them. I don’t need them, not fetish here like that. But I do enjoy watching men looking at my legs and shoes and feet when I’m in public. When I go to the “dive bar” I’ve worn heels during the summer and watching the guys look at me is so very addicting. I think of some of them who may have a heel fetish and will be wanking off later to a snapshot memory of me in heels.

I do have certain styles of shoes that I love more than others. I love wedges, always have. They are the easiest to walk on and most comfortable for me. I did buy a pair of wedges at the end of the season, only $5

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I love shoes with ankle straps. I’m not into peep toe shoes too much, I’ll wear them but if I can get something else I will. I don’t wear very strappy heels, like those that are normally advertised during wedding season or prom. I love platform shoes, mary janes and the traditional pump when needed.

I have taken so many photos with heels that I’ve lost count and sadly my blog is so unorganized that the photos are all over the place. I’ve tried to get a few together to share on this post.

This is Christmas 2016.

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Christmas isn’t all that Festive [KOTW]

Christmas brings a series of mixed emotions for me. As the years pass, I think Christmas has lost its luster for me.

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I do have so wonderful memories of Christmas Past.

Back when I was 13 yrs old I received my first kiss from a 16 yr old. I gave him my heart that night while watching “It’s a Wonderful Life.” It was Christmas eve night. I remember it was something out of a movie, he was gentle and it was romantic. Kissing by the light of the television. He held my chin with his hand, guiding me towards his face. Because we lost contact, Christmas would depress me. I would always flashback to that moment when I fell in love with him. I needed closure. A few years back, I decided to enter his name in Facebook and voila! I found him. We did talk, I got the closure I needed and Christmas wasn’t so emotionally painful for me anymore. day 1 of sassys sexmas

Christmas doesn’t do anything for me when it comes to sex. Although I am on winter break until the second week in January. I tend to drink a lot more, go out to the bar a lot more and yes get into trouble a lot more. My impulsive and risky behavior is in maximum drive. Currently I am involved in a situation that has me afraid and excited. His name is Mr. Sam and I’m not sure what to do with him. I know that because of the Christmas holiday my involvement has escalated to a level that makes me very nervous.

I try to keep my mind occupied with things that won’t trigger any depression or outbursts. I avoid the work Christmas party, I avoid my family Christmas gatherings. My two oldest children do not call or visit to wish me Merry Christmas.

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I guess that’s why I started doing my 12 Days of Sexmas photo challenge. It keeps me busy.

I think Christmas is when people are at their worse, rude and selfish. I believe that Christmas is for the young. Is my bitterness showing? In my household there are no exchange of presents with my hubby. He buys his own and I get money to buy mine. We used to do the gift exchange but it seemed like to much work. I didn’t want to do it anymore. Somewhere I lost my Christmas spirit. Not sure I even want it back.

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I’m almost embarrassed to share this, like I should have some hot & steamy sex story but I got nothing.


Come Here. I want to Taste You [KOTW]

I have always preferred vampires over any other folklore and movie monster. Halloween is a great time of the year for this topic. I remember watching a TV show about “real-life vampyres.” They belong to a vampyric community. They believe that they have a physical deficiency and need to “feed” on the “life force” of others. They stated that most vampyres do have partners, donors and feed with consent. They live like the rest of us, with the above being the exception. It was an interesting show.

Now, as for the fictional character of Dracula. He seems to be the daddy of all vampires. I’m attracted to the idea of the sensuality, immortality and the ability to control their victim.

If I could choose, I would want to be a sexual vampire, a vampire that feeds on my donor’s life force during sex. Just imagine. Being on top of my male donor, riding him hard & fast all the while I’m feeding, draining his life force to satisfy my hunger. He may or may not reach orgasm…pity if he misses out.i want to taste you

I’m not a fan of blood, if I had to live off of it I’m sure I would learn to like it. I do not like the smell of it nor do I like the taste. The sensation of blood on my skin is tolerable. I could see myself playing in it and writing with it. Just not too keen on the idea of drinking it, but the thought of piercing the skin with my teeth is exciting.

I could also be happy with just being a donor for a vamp, the fictional vampire not the psi vamps that feed off living energy. Kind of being a kept woman. I would want some benefits of course. Something that would make it worth my time of giving a vamp my blood. Sex, paid bills, paid apartment or house, something.

I am attracted to the seduction, the lust. I wanna feel the fangs pierce my skin, gasp my last breath before I wake up for my eternity. I want to then seduce others of my choosing. If you think about it, vampires are vain creatures. Sexy, seductive and forever young, no aging. I may keep some as meals, some to play with, some to torture when the mood strikes. I want to be a child of the night. I would enjoy having my human devotees around to aid me with errands that I can not take care of during the day. I want to walk among those who are neither dead or alive, living the best of both worlds.

May your Vibrators Always be Strong [KOTW]

I used the questions that were provided for Kink of the Week’s topic of vibrators.


  • Do you love the buzz of a good vibrator? Oh Yes I do.

  • Do you have a favorite or different vibes for different moods, occasions, needs? Sort of. When I get a vibrator to review I use it a lot, so much so that I tend to over use then pack it away and forget about it. Sometimes I have a need for strong vibration, which some have more than others.
  • Is a vibrator something you use on your own or does it really come into its own when it is part of partnered sex? I use my Lelo GiGi 2 (that I won from a contest that I entered). It’s my favorite g-spot vibe.
  • Have you ever used a vibrator on another woman? Yes, briefly when I was “dating” my couple. They always had toys to play with. That was when I first experienced her vibe called “wallie.” She & her hubby named a few of them, it was weird for me to name a vibrator.
  • Do you have a hot sexy fantasy that includes the use of a vibrator? Yes, I would love to use a vibrator on a man or woman for orgasm denial. Watch them twist & squirm begging me to let them orgasm but me telling them NO.
  • Do you remember your first vibrator? Yes, I bought it at one of those house parties that everyone was having back in the 90’s. When you walked out of your friend’s house carrying a brown shopping bag. It was a pink hard case battery operated vibrator.

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Since there were a few questions provided for the men folk, I decided to ask my Liege to for his answers.

  • Have you ever used one on yourself, maybe for anal play, or do you just like the way it feels against your cock and/or balls? Yes I like the way it feels against my cock & balls. I enjoy it more when you use it against your clit and I can push in to it.
  • What of using a vibrator on a partner, can you remember the first time you did that? Yes, it wasn’t enjoyable for you, because I was just learning how to use vibrators.
  • Did she just get it out or did she ask you beforehand if you were up for it? You asked me to it out, so that we could try something new.
  • Do you like watching a woman using a vibrator on herself? Yes, because it’s visually stimulating.
  • Have you ever bought a vibrator as a gift for a lover? No.
  • Do you have a hot sexy fantasy that includes the use of a vibrator?  No.

When I’m home alone, I usually use one of my vibrators daily because I normally have some “me time” during my normal routine. Since my Liege has been home due to surgery I haven’t has time to use any vibrators. Until yesterday, when he left to go to lunch with a friend. I enjoyed the use of my Lelo GiGi for a quick orgasm.

If you would like to read about my vibrator horror story…you can do that here. Basically in a nutshell my rabbit vibrator melted. YUP! IT MELTED!

I recently started reviewing more sex toys, however not always vibrators or dildos. I don’t have many vibrators or dildos. My favorite ones are seen in the photos. Since I started working with a few new affiliates I’m hoping to start reviewing more vibrators. I do prefer the non-battery operated vibrators. It’s so much easily just to plug something into the wall or into a USB port to recharge. I need to start adding more vibes to my treasure pleasure box.


Holding the Lelo Gigi 2 that I won from a contest I entered. Also in the photo is the Clit Exciter and the Revel Body the I won from



Taken [KOTW]

Everyone is different.

Everyone has unique & different kinks, fetishes and taboos that get them off.

kidnapped/captiveThe Kink of the Week is Kidnapped/Captive.

This kink that does nothing for me. When I think about being kidnapped, I think of all the action movies I’ve seen. I don’t think about sex. I think about survival and being murdered. When I was very young, I had an active imagination. I would pretend that someone was following me and would kidnap me. I would play it out in my mind and in my backyard. I didn’t have an ending to my pretend story.

On the evening news we hear those horrific stories of women being taken, held captive and being used as sex slaves, etc.  Those stories or movies is what comes into my mind. I also think it has to do with my inability to give up control, my fear of the unknown, sudden change and lack of trust that this kink really leaves me cold.


I might enjoy planning out a scene to kidnap someone. Planning it all out in my head, trying to cover all the possibilities of getting caught. What would I do with that person? That’s just it, I would plan it all out, but have no idea of what I would want to keep that person for. Sex or sissy-training maybe; only if it was someone I was comfortable with, but even then the fantasy runs dry for me. I guess this kink is just not for me.

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Brutalism/Concrete [KOTW]

Tell us: is concrete one of your kinks, or does it leave you cold?

I have not heard of this kink until I heard it on Kink of the Week. Brutalism is not one of my kinks, however it does conjure up thoughts of what I consider to be a deep fantasy.

I imagine a concrete parking garage. The ones you see in the movies when the woman is walking in a dark parking garage towards her car, when you know that someone is watching her, wanting her from himself. It leads into a consensual fantasy type rape scene, pushed up against the cold hard concrete or onto the cold hard concrete floor. A part of me wants to be that woman, another part wants to watch from around one of those thick concrete pillars. My face pressed up against the cold, rough concrete watching intently the scene. 

My senses are heightened. The coldness of the concrete against my skin. The smell of the air that comes of the concrete whether its hot or cold. The hardness of it, knowing that the concrete could break bones or scrape my skin causing pain. Looking at the lines that surround me when looking around, the colorless of the concrete is almost hypnotic if I stare too long. 

That’s all I can relate to when thinking about concrete & sex. It still would not have much of a turn on for me. Brutalism is not something that would interest me anymore than what I stated. Just not something I’m into it. However, I did learn more about this kink. 


Strap-on Fun [KOTW]

“This week’s Kink of the Week is about strap-on play. We’re looking for your experiences, fantasies and philosophies. Are strap-ons part of your everyday sex, or something you wish that was? Do strap-ons make the wearer masculine? The receiver feminine? Are you a strap-on ‘switch’ or do you stick to the giving or receiving side? Pick up your favorite bottle of lube and let’s slide into this week’s Kink of the Week – strap-on sex.”


OH YEAH?!! So you’re saying this if I let you fuk me with a strap-on that would be one off your bucket list?

UhHUH, talking dirty to you as the dildo slides in & out of you. mmm that’s a huge turn for me.

And for YOU, babe, we can scratch that off your list when you feel like you’re ready!

Woohoo! Pegging you…oh fuck yes!

U know i’m all about making your fantasies come tru!!! U got me so fucking turned on i might hafta go beat off in the bathroom OR i could sneak you in there!

haha, i was rubbing my clit a while ago.

WHA???? when did you start? U should be here. i’m just down the street.

I don’t want to leave my warm house. lol

well, i’m down for us to get together. so i can make your wish come true and you can fuck me for a change.

ohhhh yeah baby! soon very soon.

I’m gonna hold you to that!

please do.”

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We had this conversation a few weeks ago. We have yet to “get together.” His moods swings are as unpredictable as mine. I have always wanted to fuck a man. Just once. I have always viewed using a strap-on with a man as turning him into my sissy bitch. Strap-ons make me feel dominant. Maybe that’s why man always rub their cocks in public and strut around like their cock is 10 inches long.

I married a very vanilla man. Any discussion of using a strap-on or rimming or anal sex is a big turn off to him. So, using a strap-on with him is out of the question. I have my fantasies about using one, not on him but someone else. Someone who fights his inner demons. I know he is bisexual, at times he has difficulty accepting it. I’m just thrilled that I am one of two women who know his truth.

My fantasy would be catching him in that mood. When he will submit to me, trust me. I would build up the emotional warm and fuzzy part of it. My goal would be for me to get him to cum while my dildo is thrusting in & out of his sissy hole. When he would release & submit every part of himself to me. I wanna hear him call out my name in pleasure & ecstasy.

I want him to suck it first. I wanna make his eyes water, gag him a bit. I wanna suck his cock & balls. I wanna run my fingers across his skin. I wanna rim him first. Stroke his cock every so often. I want to bend him over. I wanna watch his face as I stroke up my dildo with lube. I wanna rub that dildo against his ass cheeks, spreading his cheeks. My hands on his back, feeling the warmth of his skin. Is he trembling? Is he excited? Is his cock hard and leaking cum? Placing my hands on his waist I wanna push the dildo into his hole and hear him gasp for air. Hear him sighing, moaning and wanting it deeper. Fucking him slowly at first until he wants it deep & hard & fast. Finishing with him cumming while I’m pumping tight asshole.

Funny when I hear “strap-on” I don’t ever think of an experience with myself and another woman. Not saying that I have ruled that out or crossed it off my sex bucket list. It’s something that just never comes in to my mind. Do I own a strap-on? I recently reviewed a dildo that is harness compatible. I just need to get a harness now. I think I need to have one for when I ever get the opportunity to peg a man. 

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