The Art of Sex – TMI Tuesday: April 8, 2014

1. Would you take or have you taken a sexually themed vacation getaway (i.e., Hedonism, Club Fantasy Island, Cap d’Agde)? Why or why not? Not sure if this counts. I’ll let you decide for yourself. My good friend owned a gay camp ground. It was a camp ground only most every one camping there was gay, bisexual. Every year in August the Leather/Denim/Bear community would host “leather in the woods” weekend. I was invited down, because my friend knew about my leather kink. I’m a total “fruitfly” also known as a “faghag.” I prefer Fruit Fly. The were mini-seminars, evening drag shows. Clothing optional. Sex in the woods. We “dressed” for dinner. Full leather attire. Even though I am not a member of any group, I enjoyed in their activities when I could. I remember wearing my little black latex shorts, black combat boots, white socks & tank top. Sex in leather slings, suspension (didn’t try that). I learned a lot, had the best times there with my friend and my beloved.  

2. You have won an erotic fantasy weekend getaway package custom fit to your needs. Describe the fantasy you desire. Leather. High Heels. Pegging. Metal. Anything to awaken the senses. Down time. Poolside. Just a few things. 

3. An artist has decided that you are his/her inspiration. They want to capture the essence of your sexiness in a sculpture. What would that sculpture look like? Describe it for us or post a photo of an existing sculpture that you believe closely captures the essence of your sexiness. Blue too

4. You are being paid 500,000 USD to pose as a live nude model mimicking one of sculptures in the photo below. Which sculpture will you recreate live? Why? #1….Because sometimes, it just feels good. No need to have an orgasm, just to feel a hard cock inside can be a wonderful feeling. And if he’s gonna get his, I wanna make sure I get mine. #selfish

3 sculpture jeju loveland

5. Which book title fits your current thoughts of love, sex or romance?
a. No More Silly Love Songs
b. The Joy of the Quickie
c. Dr. Seth’s Love Prescription
d. Why Do Fools Fall In Love

Bonus: Which one is you? See the sculpture below. Tell us which position you would like to occupy and write a caption. On my knees, because I’m not dependent on him. “Don’t drop her on me!”

Jeju-loveland-trio

 

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It’s been a Long Time

One of my shoe fetish boys had been going through a rough time in his life. Working long hours and on top of it his wife had developed some health issues that she continuously refused to treat. He had mentioned months ago, when we talked last that he was in the process of getting a divorce. He had also reconnected to a long last love while he had been spending time with his folks.

We are connected on Facebook, he sent me a message. I think when I connect with others on Facebook, it’s a way to let them know I am real and that they are now in the inner circle.

Here is the messages: Hey there…. I know its been forever since I have talked to you. Things have been crazy here. Haven’t had much time to get on here or anything else…. anyway, I hope all is well with you and things are going good. I do look at your pics often and dream of the day that we could get together and play with your heels…. hopefully I’ll talk to you later… love ya! have a great day!!!

I replied: hey ..thanks for the check in. it’s been forever since i have been here too. working two jobs and it seems like i don’t have enough time now. I am glad you enjoy the photos….i had a virus in my computer and completely wiped out my external hard drive along with all my computer information. so i lost everything i ever had. you keep in touch. stay safe

Him: of course I’ll keep in touch…. your one of the dearest people i have ever met online and I look forward to a long and “playful” relationship…Good news and bad news though. Good news, the divorce was finalized today… Bad new, she took all of her heels with her… Oh well Time to start training a new girl to enjoy heels… I’ll have to start looking online again for another sexy pair to fill and send you… It’s been a long time since i did that for you and would love to do it again… Like I said, maybe one day we can meet in person and I’ll fill your shoes with your feet still in them…I’m sure that I’ll be happier… not sure bout how she will be, don’t really care either. I have met a girl here, she is not into wearing heels(yet)..I am sure that with a little bit of coaxing I can get her into a pair pretty easily though. I’m definitely not looking for another wife right now, just wanna have fun and enjoy life to the fullest for a bit and do who and what I want for a while. I showed her a pair of the ex’s heels before she came and got them all and she said there was no way she could walk in something like that… I told her she could, it just takes a bit of practice… Anyway, I will be ok. Life is getting better all the time. Anyway, have a great day and a good weekend, don’t do anything I wouldn’t do!!!! Love ya

Me: Just keep me posted on what’s going on and what you decide to do. I’m always here for you.

I find it interesting that we met on a shoe site and have become efriends on a different level. He is comfortable telling me about his life. He was trusting enough to allow me to see photos of his family, let me into other aspects of his life. I know where he works, his hobbies, about his children. I would not do anything to betray the trust he has given me. I have no intentions on running away with him, having an affair with him. Sure, he enjoys sending me shoes that he has picked out just for me. I model the shoes for my hubby and hubby takes the photos and I then send the photos to him. There is no sex, no nudity, no commitment, no money exchanged ever. It just worked out this way for us. He knew I love shoes, so he offered one day to send me a pair.

I used to enjoy chatting with the few men that I had met on that shoe site. Now a days everyone is so busy and kind of lost interest in the whole thing. Which is just fine for me, I felt obligated in a way to be there for them, then the resentment kicked in. Now, there are less than 5 of the shoe fetish guys that I have contact with online.

I will admit that none of them have made the impact on my life as much as X has. I truly don’t understand how that how worked out as far as the whole internet relationship thing goes, it just did. I try not to figure it out anymore cause it makes my head hurt.

It’s been a Long Time

One of my shoe fetish boys had been going through a rough time in his life. Working long hours and on top of it his wife had developed some health issues that she continuously refused to treat. He had mentioned months ago, when we talked last that he was in the process of getting a divorce. He had also reconnected to a long last love while he had been spending time with his folks.

I opened IM and found a message from him. I don’t know why he left it there. We are connected on facebook, but I think it’s just a way for him to connect as a last resort. I think when I connect with others on Facebook, it’s a way to let them know I am real and that they are now in the inner circle.

Here is the message:

Hey there…. I know its been forever since I have talked to you. Things have been crazy here. Havent had much time to get on here or anything else…. anyway, I hope all is well with you and things are going good. I do look at your pics often and dream of the day that we could get together and play with your heels…. hopefully I’ll talk to you later… love ya! have a great day!!!
I replied:
hey ..thanks for the check in. it’s been forever since i have been here too. working two jobs and it seems like i dont have enough time now. I am glad you enjoy the photos….i had a virus in my computer and completely wiped out my external hard drive along with all my computer information. so i lost everything i ever had. you keep in touch. stay safe
Him:
of course I’ll keep in touch…. your one of the dearest people i have ever met online and I look forward to a long and “playful” relationship…Good news and bad news though. Good news, the divorce was finalized today… Bad new, she took all of her heels with her… Oh well Time to start training a new girl to enjoy heels… I’ll have to start looking online again for another sexy pair to fill and send you… It’s been a long time since i did that for you and would love to do it again… Like I said, maybe one day we can meet in person and I’ll fill your shoes with your feet still in them…I’m sure that I’ll be happier… not sure bout how she will be, don’t really care either. I have met a girl here, she is not into wearing heels(yet)..I am sure that with a little bit of coaxing I can get her into a pair pretty easily though. I’m definitely not looking for another wife right now, just wanna have fun and enjoy life to the fullest for a bit and do who and what I want for a while. I showed her a pair of the ex’s heels before she came and got them all and she said there was no way she could walk in something like that… I told her she could, it just takes a bit of practice… Anyway, I will be ok. Life is getting better all the time. Anyway, have a great day and a good weekend, don’t do anything I wouldn’t do!!!! Love ya
Me:
Just keep me posted on what’s going on and what you decide to do. I’m always here for you.

I find it interesting that we met on a shoe site and have become efriends on a different level. He is comfortable telling me about his life. He was trusting enough to allow me to see photos of his family, letting me into other aspects of his life. I know where he works, his hobbies, about his children. I would not do anything to betray the trust he has given me. I have no intentions on running away with him, having an affair with him. Sure, he enjoys sending me shoes that he has picked out just for me. I model the shoes for my hubby and hubby takes the photos and I then send the photos to him. There is no sex, no nudity, no commitment, no money exchanged ever. It just worked out this way for us. He knew I love shoes, so he offered one day to send me a pair.

I used to enjoy chatting with the few men that I had met on that shoe site. Now a days everyone is so busy and kind of lost interest in the whole thing. Which is just fine for me, I felt obligated in a way to be there for them, then the resentment kicked in. Now, there are less than 5 of the shoe fetish guys that I have contact with online.