Nyctophilia

The definition of Nyctophilia is the love of darkness or night or feeling like you belong in the dark. This usually applies to those who often feel sadness. .

There are times when I feel the darkness. It’s my darkness though, I do love the night. But there is also a part of me that likes to be inside before the light of day. There is a certain time during the night that scares me.

I love the lights, the beat of the night, the night sky. The peacefulness of the night-time is soothing.

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The Hunky Hairy Hipster

While at my favorite watering hole, a friend of mine was there sporting his normal “man bun.”  I had always been envious of his long wavy locks and I have always had a thing for men with long hair. However, this young man is too young for me to ever think about in only other way.

I asked him if I could take his photo for this challenge.

He seemed very unsure of himself and is a very sensitive young man.

I tried to get him to relax, but the more I spoke to him the more he became nervous. I really like this photo. I haven’t heard his opinion yet, hope he likes it.

Drinks and Darts at the Dive bar

It’s free pizza night at my dive bar. The last time I was there was on last week. I wentsassycat3000, a to z challenge, latina blogger, Drinks and Darts at the Dive bar there to see my best friend shoot darts because her team was playing at my bar. I had stayed away for Lent. Yes, I’m no longer a practicing Catholic, but I thought it would be a good excuse to remove myself from the drama of a dive bar.

A lot has changed since I’ve been away for those few weeks. Bartenders getting fired, new bartenders suck and probably wont be there long. The drunks want their drinks fast and not have to wait 10 minutes for a beer. The jukebox is no longer connected to the internet because the bartender who made sure the bill was paid is no longer working there and now everything is kind of upside down.

THE BEST THING A DRUNKARD CAN DO IS BUY A ROUND OF DRINKS FOR A CROWED BAR

There is no more restaurant style pizza, but wings and frozen pizza. WHA?! Frozen pizza?! I guess drunks will eat anything if its free and there is booze involved. I’m not one for chicken wings, so I continued to drink my pineapple juice and Malibu Rum. I sipped my cocktail while listening to some of the female regulars go on about each other while each one of them took turns going to the LR. One conversation got only ugly when two of the women were arguing about having to take another one of them home. There were a few “fuck you’s” exchanged and I thought to myself “this is the reason I don’t have female friends.” I would have told both of them to fuck off, not to feel obligated that I have to take one of them home.

sassycat3000, a to z challenge, latina blogger, Drinks and Darts at the Dive barI wrote about the dive bar once before, but I didn’t go into detail about the patrons, the drunks. They are like an extended dysfunctional family. Everyone knows everyone, they all are related by some way or they grew up with each other, but John Doe can’t just walk in and sit down to have a drink. The bar is so far off the main path its difficult just to find the door.

Sometimes, the atmosphere is dark and cold. Other times its filled with crazy drama and other times it’s filled with the drunkest of men. When glasses fall and break to spilling someone else’s drink, the drunks are made to clean up their messes.

ALWAYS TOAST BEFORE DOING A SHOT

As the evening processes and the drunker every one becomes, more drinks are bought, shots and toasts are made. Since Mr. Sam & I have been “together” the regulars now embrace him as one of their own which makes me happy. I am ashamed to admit that I wanted to have Mr. Sam replace Charlie and those good times. Yet on the other hand I am glad I have Mr. Sam there with me, because it’s now once again that the alcohol flows again like milk in the land of milk and honey.

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THE BAR CLOCK MOVES FROM 10 O’CLOCK TO LAST CALL IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE

I used to shoot darts back in the 90’s. I used to watch Charlie play a few years ago, he had used my darts and destroyed them. I need to get some new ones, but I don’t play that often so its now on the top of my list. However, there are a few guys there that are hardcore. sassycat3000, a to z challenge, latina blogger, Drinks and Darts at the Dive barI always tell myself that I am only staying for a few drinks, one or two. Regrettably it never turns out the way, I always end up staying too long. I end up trying to fit in my desires in to a short amount of time when I should have cut my drinking & socializing time down instead. I’ll never learn, but the practice is fun & exciting.

Are you a Sex Blogger on Instagram?

Are you a sex blogger posting your sexy classy sensual photos on Instagram?

I am.

Would you like a chance to get featured on an Instagram Hub?

Yes I would.

Why not join the scs_of_our_world weekly photo challenge?

OK!

erotic photo challenge, scs_blue challenge, sassycat3000, scs_of_our_world, instragram, photo challengeThere are several “adult” Instagram hubs that feature daily photos and maybe a photo challenge every so often, but scs_of _our_world is attempting to spice up their feed a bit. Instagram is strict when it comes to posting genitals, nipples etc and that can be challenging for some, to capture a moment without exposing one’s private bits.

I am a Lead Admin for several IG hubs and the Admin for the “sexy, classy, sensual” hub. Trying to find new faces and new photos out there is difficult. Instagram’s main feed makes it difficult to be seen since it all moves so quickly. It seems to be all about the hashtag which can also be difficult. This hub is in need of new faces and personally I like “real” people versus all the models that I see from professional photographers.

If you’re interested in challenging yourself with a photo theme or wanting to experiment with your photography or wanna gain some more followers and would like the chance of being featured on the hub, please consider joining the weekly challenge by using the assigned hashtag.

I try to post the new challenge weekly.

Each new challenge runs from Thursday to Tuesday. Winners are usually posted on Wednesdays.

The new theme is BLUE.

  • Show us your sexiest blue photos. Any sexy photo with BLUE worked in it. Sexy blue bra, panties, any blue props, sexy blue hairstyle. Get creative. We Are Very Excited To See Your New BLUE Sexy Classy Sensual photos.
  • Tag Your Photo Entries  #scs_blue
  • There will be One Winner

RULES

  • Photos must have an Erotica/Sensual/Artistic BLUE Theme Unlimited Entries (New Only)
  • Photos MUST Be Your own
  • Photos can NOT violate the TOS of Instagram
  • Challenge Starts Thursday March 30th and Ends Tuesday April 4th
  • By using #scs_blue tag. You are giving @s.c.s_of_our_world permission to repost your photo. #blue #scs_blue #scs_challenge #current_challenges

I hope that I see some of my fellow sex bloggers join in some photography challenge fun.

Also, I am in need of some photos to use for future challenges. Do you have any of the following themed erotic photos that you would be willing to allow me to use as challenge promo posts? (Example is my photo above). The photo doesn’t even have to be in your feed because I will tag you in your photo and that will give you credit. Your name will also be listed at the bottom of the challenge post. The photos just need to be sexy. classy, sensual and contain one of the following themes.

  • necklace
  • looking down
  • out the window
  • motion blur
  • shoot from the hip
  • all dressed up
  • shoot from above
  • shoot from below

Please contact me about submitting your photos, suggestions or questions.

Shopping! [SS308]

Weekends are for ….SHOPPING.

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I received a Victoria Secret gift ecard last week from an admirer of my cleavage, photos and stories.

I went to the mall to select my new bra. The Victoria Secret Perfect Coverage Bra.

Most of you know I edit the hell out of my photos. WHY?! Because I’m filled with self-image and self-hate issues. That isn’t a plea for anyone to debate or to attempt to make me feel better. Not my intention, it’s one of my character defects that I work on daily.

I took the following photo to share with my admirer via Sinful Sunday, but I felt old & fat. (OH Yeah?! Stop complaining and do something about it. I know, I hear that in my head).

I always show my beloved the photos before I use them and ask for his opinion. I sent him the edited version first then the original. [BELOW] This photo he didn’t understand the editing.

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On or Off?

He went on to say he wasn’t sure of my point, then I sent him the original. Now mind you, I hate how I look in it. We know our flaws, I don’t need him to point them out, but I wanted him to see the difference in the photos. After looking at them both he says “the original is not flattering to you at all. Your belly is too big and it looks like the bra doesn’t fit.

I’m not upset, because I knew exactly what he was talking about. That’s what I’d seen as well, being insecure I asked Mr. Sam for his opinion. This is what he said “I think it’s hotter than the edited one. Shows your boobs, skin color, and your stomach don’t look fat but when you look your eyes go straight to boobs (as you want) then follow your stomach to wonder what’s below.”

sinful sunday, victoria secret, sassycat3000, latina, sexblogger, cleavage, Mr. Sam is the reason I am sharing this photo, also because I need to continue stepping outside my comfort zone. I would rather have the photo edited. The photo does make my belly look big, because it is! Sorry, Mr. Sam you’re blinded by lust!

My admirer enjoyed my previous photos and I hope he continues to enjoy my edited & unedited photos. They are for him to enjoy. I truly am grateful for the few admirers, efriends and followers that I have. Thank You, Mr. T for my beautiful, new blue VS bra!!!

 

Rest & Relaxation

But there really isn’t any rest for the wicked and wicked I truly am.

I normally don’t like posting unflattering photos of me. However, I’m trying to push myself out of my comfort zone a little at a time.

I’m always the one taking pictures of others. Here is a photo taken by someone else. I found this photo somewhat fitting because of the end of February Photo Fest. I’m disappointed in myself for not keeping up with it this month. I’ve said it before I can give all the excuses for not keeping here with things here. Hopefully I can get my shit together, get back on track.

There ain’t no rest for the wicked
Money don’t grow on trees
I got bills to pay, I got mouths to feed
There ain’t nothing in this world for free
I know I can’t slow down
I can’t hold back though you know I wish I could
No there ain’t no rest for the wicked
Until we close our eyes for good…” by Cage the Elephant

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