G-TING Jump Drive Lightning Memory Stick External Storage [product review]

There are to many photos on my iPhone. A few of them I would like to make into prints to hang up and to give away to family & friends. However, I find myself always running out of storage on my iPhone and looking to delete some photos or some app because I need the space.

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I ordered this G-TING Jump Drive Lightning Memory Stick External Storage in hopes that I can remove some extra photos from my iPhone. Transferring the files over to the memory stick was a little more difficult than I thought.

The instructions are included with the memory stick and were fairly simple to follow. You must download the I-Easy Drive app in order for the stick to work. This is one thing I don’t like about this product. Your phone will ask permission to communicate with I-Easy Drive. Once that is completed is when I became confused. You can open the I-Easy Drive app and there it will say how much space is on both items. You click on phone to see what files are there, but I don’t have any thing on my iPhone. This surprised because I don’t have much space left, so what’s taking up so much space.

Click on the photo option to transfer your iPhone photos to the memory stick. You can also transfer videos but I have yet to figure out how to transfer my music from my iPhone to the memory stick. The memory stick has several other features like being able to move/copy/delete files. I haven’t figure out how to do that. You are able to encrypt files , send files using some different apps. You can backup & restore the memory stick.

This memory stick can be used on an iPhone, android phone and has a USB connection. It works well with my laptop. It did free up some space my iPhone by allowing me to transfer some photos. I can take the memory stick and get prints made some where. It is small & convenient.

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Hizek Manual Focus Telescope Zoom Kit [product review]

I’ve been wanting a zoom lens for my iPhone ever since I first seen them.

I was given the opportunity to review one and jumped at the chance. It arrived in a sealed bag with the box neatly packed.

I opened the box and found the lens and underneath was the extra items. Inside were the tripod. The clip that holds the smartphone to the lens. A cleaning cloth and quick instruction booklet.

I looked at the instructions, set it up. Here comes the part where you need patience. It took several and I mean several attempts to align the camera lens and the zoom lens together. To get the smart phone to stay aligned with the zoom lens to secure them together without scratching my phone or losing the alignment between both lens.

Once everything is secured together and there is no fear of the smart phone dropping from the zoom lens clip, the camera is ready to use. You will need to manually focus the lens by using the black ring on the zoom lens. Once you manually focus on your subject, you are able to take the shot.

I’m pretty sure it will be difficult to take photos of moving subjects. This works great for wildlife and still life photos, landscapes or buildings.

Below are a few photos I have taken with the Hizek Zoom lens.

Would I recommend this Hizek Zoom lens?

I would suggest shopping around a bit first. Sure. It does take ok photos. The only thing the really bothers is how difficult and annoying it is to set it up.

 

New RFID Blocking Credit Card Protector Small Unisex Leather Case Holder [product review]

I’ve done a few Amazon Reviews on the side. There are several Facebook groups that have some really good offers, just be careful when getting involved because most sellers are from China. Receiving products on time if at all can sometimes be a problem.

I received the RFID Blocking Credit Card Protector Small Unisex Leather Case Holder to review. I had been tossing my store cards in a small makeup bag. I thought it would be a great time to organize myself before school starts and I return to work.

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It arrived on time, in a white plastic mail bag and the wallet was inside a clear sealed bag. When I looked at it and both my husband & son were there, we all just kind of stared at it. Why? Because it looked like something you buy at the dollar store.

I’m not going to pad my reviews just because a seller or company gave me their product free to review. I can’t. I won’t. If the product is a good one then I will write that, but if it’s not I will also write that too.

Continuing with this card holder wallet. I told my son that it was advertised as a RFID blocking wallet. He asked where is the magnet. How can you tell if it is truly an RFID blocking wallet. I said I have no idea. I opened up the card holder and looked at it carefully. I found no sign that it will block anyone from getting my information.

My son said “It looks like something you buy a teenager girl for a gift.” Even my husband looked at it and asked “how much was this?” I replied “$7.55” We are all standing there with a blank look on our faces. No. No way. Just go to the Dollar Store or the local thrift store!

The seller did contact me to say thank you for reviewing this. I felt bad that I goofed on giving the wrong feedback. The seller was fine, nothing wrong with that. What I am concerned with is that it was advertised as RFID blocking. Why not offer something that states or explains that. The main reason I purchased this item was for that fact. To me this is what it is a card holder. Nothing more nothing less.

 

 

 

 

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His Darkness affects My Darkness

I don’t remember how long it took me to finally trust or to feel secure with my Beloved. It’s going on 20 years of insanity between us. Looking back I don’t think we had a lot of problems but outsiders looking in have told me that they thought we were getting divorced because of all the bickering.

Now that Mr. Sam has been in my life I can see where & how my insecurities crop up. For those of us who suffer from Borderline, having someone else who also has a mental illness only causes more issues that need to be addressed.

Caring for them both for them deeply, I don’t ever want to lose either one of them. However, at times one of them shuts down on me. I feel left out. I have no idea whats going on in that head of his. Sadly that the sociopath in me doesn’t care, but that’s with anyone. I’m not a person to ask lots of questions, unless I’m looking for something. I probably should ask questions because someone who suffers from chronic depression can easily slip down that slope into total darkness to be lost in their madness.

I always have to “emotionally vomit” on one of the important men in my life. Emotionally vomiting (my term that I always use) is when I have to get everything out of my being so that I don’t erupt on the wrong person or do or say something, anything that I will regret. So one day my Beloved asked me “Wait. Wait. Are you mad at me? Did I do or say anything to upset you? Is this directed at me?”

I laughed and said NO silly. I just need to vent so that I don’t explode. He breathed a huge sigh of relief. I continued. It’s what I do now. I vent on one of the two men, who ever is available at the time. Now if neither one is available then there is a problem because I get frustrated, impatient and restless. Those feelings then push me to do impulsive things, things I wouldn’t normally do, well maybe. Things that try to fill the emotional void. Sometimes I think I do things to make me feel, something, anything.

Emotions … acting without the benefit of intellect.

I know can see that communication is key in any relationship. But if one has a mental illness and shuts down then what? Do I get in their face and demand for them to talk? I won’t. I can’t. When it comes to Mr. Sam I am still walking on shaky ground. What bothers me the most is his inability to just tell me what he needs, if its space, time or a shoulder. Then again when someone is falling into their darkness how can they reach out? I know that he is not leaving me (yet) and I am not leaving him. I do enjoy his friendship, his tenderness and ability to see me for who I truly am.

The best thing for me is to keep my hands busy because when the mind has nothing to focus on then that’s when I get into trouble. I have tons of things to do. Things that I have neglected for months. But first things first, get some photos done and then finish up all those reviews I have.

After I published this post, one of the last songs Charlie had played for me came on my playlist. I floated away to that moment that our relationship was falling apart, but the lyrics to this song can now apply to Mr. Sam. I don’t ever want to lose him but yet a part of me knows nothing last forever. I will do what I do best when we get like this. If you wanna know the song you can find out by clicking this youtube link.

It’s Times like this that I don’t miss the Bar Drama

The bar scene is never a boring one for me. Sure there are times it can be but for the most part I can get a good rush from fucking with people there.
I hadn’t been to my dive bar in a while because I had told everyone that I was on lock down due to the mother in law is visiting for the summer. This is my excuse for staying out of the bar for the summer, because I hate drinking when it’s hot outside.
A week ago I stopped in for an hour and one of my drinking girlfriends told me that another regular had told the other regulars that I was getting a divorced and that I was getting together with Mr Sam.

Not true, but a rumor made up by a chick (who said she’s my friend) who wants to tarnish my reputation with Charlie’s crew so that she can be my replacement. Don’t misunderstand, I’m NOT a party favor like she is. I’m one of the guys so to speak. She wants the connections that I have due to being Charlie’s (ex) girlfriend.
She’s going about it the wrong way. I didn’t fuck my way into Charlie’s crew. That’s what she’s been doing. She’s fucked 5 different members of the crew. Those dudes weren’t even allowed to speak to me let alone fuck me. I’m not saying she can’t fuck the dudes but trying to sleep your way to the top and tarnishing my rep is something else.

So she started spreading these rumors about me. And when I walked in to the bar last night she immediately started in with gossip. She focused mostly on Mr. Sam & my bestie playing a game of pool. She mentioned that Mr. Sam has put on weight as if a woman is cooking for him. She picked on my bestie because she repeated what had been said about Mr. Sam putting on weight.

She went on & on about how suspicious it looked that Mr. Sam was ignoring me but hanging with my bestie. Funny but Mr. Sam & I had hung out all day. Day drinking, picnic in the park and then back to see my bestie. But that venomous bitch has to have something to talk about and since I’m in the way of her climb I’m the focus.
I spoon fed her all kinds of crap. But because the alcohol started to hit me, I became unruly. The bartender had given me a free drink because he was eavesdropping on our conversation. Poor me, Mr. Sam dropped me for my bestie. Not true but I played it up. I started punching her in the leg. I was slamming my free shot glass on the countertop making noise. Charlie’s crew watched the show intently. The bartender took my glass away. I watched Mr. Sam and my bestie sit together away from me on the other side of the bar. Mr. Sam asks me for some money, I yell at him about asking me for money. People look at us. My bestie introduced me to a dude (another regular I’m familiar with but don’t know formerly). He says something and I call him a motherfucker. Feeling the alcohol really starting to affect me I become louder. My bestie says to the dude “she’s mean, I mean really mean and don’t get too close.” He replies “I know, I’ve seen her before and I know she’s mean.” I slam my hand on the bar “motherfucker you don’t know me.”

Mr. Sam tries to tell me he’s leaving but I yell at him. My bestie goes to sit with the other dude and tells me “Sam couldn’t deal with your shit.” Which I found funny, because we had already planned it. I finish up my drink and tell the backstabbing chick that I’m leaving. She walks me out to my car, asking if I’m ok to drive home. Insisting I allow her to drive me home, no thank you. I’m not going home, I’m going to Mr. Sam’s apartment.

An Open Letter [BFMH2017]

Sometimes I replay past events, situations over in my head.
Tonight I’m replaying Friday night and trying to figure out where it went wrong for me (& you).
I can’t see you tolerating a lot of this type of behavior from me in the future. I will say it again … that I do not like myself when I get like that. That the booze has caused me to say and do things I normally would push somewhere else.
But once again I let myself get to the point when I have no filter or no sensor to tell me to be quiet.
I’m sorry that I hurt you. I’m sorry that I treated you badly and that I kind of ruined that buzz we had going. Eventually you will grow wary of the continuous outbursts, disappointments and tantrums. Maybe not this week or next…but you will. Not saying that you would leave or dump me but you will change. And I don’t want you to change who you are because I’m acting awful.
I don’t know how it spun so quickly out of control for me.
Ok. Maybe I do. I was jealous once again, but not in the way you think but maybe insecurity. I hate when I get like that. I hate when I feel jealous, insecure for no reason. I get frustrated because I want everyone to know that you are mine, that you belong to me. But I can’t do that and it makes me mad.
In the car I know I hurt you, today you shut down on me again. I pushed you Friday night and today I seen it. I felt it. I said nothing until now, because I hadn’t processed it in my head. I know if the tables were turned I would want you to acknowledge your behavior and apologize.
My fear is that one…you’ll leave out of frustration of this behavior.
Two: that I will continue to act like this when I get jealous, feel ganged up on and feeling picked at.
I don’t mind when you tease me, pick at me in fun but when I ask you to stop and you continue, I get angry and lash out. Like the time at the bar when I hit you in the face. Which I hate myself for because I don’t like being disrespectful to someone I care about. But when I ask you to stop teasing me I just want you to respect that at that moment. It’s the same as if I said “stop” or “no” during sex. I know you wouldn’t keep doing it,right?
Unfortunately as you know those childhood wounds run deep.
I know that I always want you in my life. Even if we’re just being friends, I would be ok with that.
I’m sorry, I really am. I hope this makes sense to you and doesn’t make things worse. I love you.

Examples of BPD symptoms in the above are….

Unstable Relationships. A pattern of unstable intense relationships, such as idealizing someone one moment and then suddenly believing the person doesn’t care enough or is cruel.

Impulsive and Risky Behavior: such as gambling, reckless driving, unsafe sex, spending sprees, binge eating or drug abuse, or sabotaging success by suddenly quitting a good job or ending a positive relationship.

Emotions: Intense and highly changeable moods, with each episode lasting from a few hours to a few days.

Impulsive Aggression: coupled with a highly reactive and unstable affect modulation. Thus, patients with BPD will respond to disappointment and frustrations with intense emotions like rage, fear of abandonment and dysphoria. Then serve to trigger the generation of an impulsive, often aggressive, response to the provocation.

Push-Pull Syndrome: A chronic pattern of sabotaging and re-establishing closeness in a relationship without appropriate cause or reason.

 

 

Crawl! Get on all fours and Crawl! [kotw]

The first image that came into my mind when I read the prompt for kink of the week was the scene in one of my favorite movies “9 1/2 Weeks.”

When I watched it back then I felt like there is no way I would ever want to crawl for anyone and the money would make me feel like a prostitute. I wasn’t turned on by that scene at all nor would I get turned on by watching someone crawl to me.

If there was a man in my life who felt submissive more than dominant, I suppose I could see him crawling for me or to me. If I’m on the floor with my partner and he crawls to me, it’s not because it’s a sexual thing it’s because he probably is getting closer to me and crawling would be easier than standing up and walking.

Adding to this that my knees are no longer the knees of a 20 something year old. I’m missing ligaments in one knee and this Thursday I will get the results of my recent MRI test on the other knee, which the doctor seems to think I tore the meniscus. So, I am not thrilled to be on the floor crawling on my hands and knees.

I will say Molly’s prompt photo is very sexy, crawling photos? Yes I think those can be sexy. Still not sexually turned on by looking at them.

Molly asked “…those that actively hate the idea of it. Why do you think is?”

Why do I hate crawling? I don’t. I just don’t get in to crawling.  In my mind it makes me degraded more than I care to feel. I don’t mind a good degrading hardcore fucking but crawling on all fours crosses a line with me. I really don’t have a specific reason. The kink of crawling leaves me cold and indifferent. I don’t see it ever being a part of my sex life.

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Satisfyer Pro Penguin [Review]

I have reviewed the Satisfyer 2.

The second clitoral vibrator I received from the Satisfyer family is the Satisfyer Pro Penguin.

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The Satisfyer Pro Peguin is also a touch-free clitoral vibrator that uses the “pressure wave” technology.  The opening of the vibrator is placed over the clitoris to feel the vibrations made from the burst of air coming from the device. The Penguin also has 11 different levels of intense vibrations. However, instead of having two separate control buttons the penguin has combined the control buttons in one central area. Once the power button is pushed it will light up and stay lit until the device is turned off. You can increase the vibrations by pushing towards the button area of the control button.

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Something I do not like about Pro Penguin is that once you have pushed the power increase button you can not decrease the power until you have reached the maximum level. Once you have maxed out power then the Penguin will begin to decrease in its intensity back down to the lowest level.

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The Penguin is a lot smaller than the others. It’s about 5 inches in length and compared to the Satisfyer 2 the opening on the Penguin is larger with an obtuse angled head & neck with a rounded penguin-like body. This device is silky, smooth silicone texture verses the smooth plastic of the Satisfyer 2 and the Satisfyer Pro 2. The white silicone tip is removable for easy cleaning. It is also thinner than the Satisfyer 2. I experienced some roughness from the edges while using this device. I didn’t have a problem with the white removable tip falling off until the Penguin was used on me by my partner. When he would switch hands or move the vibrator around for some reason the tip would fall off. Not once but a few times which broke my concentration.

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After holding the Penguin for a few minutes I noticed that I feel the vibration more in my hand than I did with the other two Satisfyer’s. Perhaps because its smaller and is silicone that the vibration is more pronounced in this model than in the plastic models. This model has rechargeable li-ion batteries sealed inside the body and it comes with a magnetic USB charging cable.

WHAT I DIDN’T LIKE ABOUT THE SATISFYER PRO PENGUIN

  • The white silicone tip is too thin for my liking. Sometimes it fell out while in use or in transport.
  • The intensity/vibrating control button is like being on an elevator, going up (stopping at every floor) to the skydeck looking around and coming back down but also stopping on every floor. I prefer the Satisfyer 2’s +/- control button.
  • Wasn’t too thrilled with the “power on” light.

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WHAT I DID LIKE ABOUT THE SATISFYER PRO PENGUIN

  • I do like the size of the Penguin, the shape is kind of cute. I like the feel the silicone feels in my hands.
  • Contains Li-ion (rechargeable) batteries. The magnetic USB charging cable is included.
  • It is submergible. (Have not tested this device out underwater. I am kind of afraid too)
  • Affordable. Usually it’s less than $50.
  • Easy to clean
  • The device came inside its box that had two separate seals, to assure the customer that the device had not been previously opened.

 

Same Intense Orgasms as the Satisfyer 2.

I enjoyed testing this out as I did the other two Satifyer’s I received. This one was used by both myself during some “me time,” in which I did have some very intense toe-curling orgasms resulting in extreme wetness. I was not disappointed with the Penguin doing its job, I was only irritated when my partner was using on me and the white silicone tip kept falling out. When my partner would move the device or switch hands somehow the white insertable tip would fall out of the vibrator. Of course you are probably guessed how  annoyed I was when that happened, not to mention distracted, interrupted from reaching my orgasm.

After I had reached my orgasms, I decided to just play around with this toy. My partner laid down on his back, both of us had no expectations using this stimulator. His penis was flaccid and I placed the Penguin on his frenulum on a light-medium setting. I continued using my other hand on other areas of his penis. A few minutes passed by, when I felt his penis hardening. My partner reached an orgasm while I used the Penguin on him, just on that area. He shared that it was a different experience, different sensation and pleasurable. I’m not suggesting that the Penguin to used in this manner, I am merely sharing my experience using this stimulator.

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