Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation [product review]

We spoke and Satisfyer listened!

I was thrilled to bits when I was asked to review their newest clitoral stimulator the – Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation.

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This is pretty much the same model with a few exceptions. Some of the concerns or issues that I had with the Satisfyer Pro 2 have now been changed with the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation. And I love it!

What’s the same?

  • The device still comes in a sealed tight box with charger and instruction booklet.
  • The body of the stimulator is the same. Same color, same texture, same material, same design.
  • The device continues to use touch-free “pressure wave” technology or what some call a type of clitoral suction to give intense orgasms.
  • USB Charging cable is included and is secured the same way.
  • The device remains waterproof, useable in the shower or bathtub. I just wouldn’t submerge the device under water for a long time.
  • There are still 11 vibration settings. Each one a straight pulsating vibration or suction sensation that start out low and with each click increases to the highest level of a strong intense sensation.

What’s different?

  • The heads of the Satifyer are different. The Satisfyer Pro 2 has a smaller opening and the white silicone tip is thicker. On the Next Generation the opening is larger and the white silicone tip is thinner around the edges compared to the thicker earlier model. The silicone tips are not interchangeable.
  • Inside the device’s opening the area around the mechanism that pulsates is now sealed. My concern with the earlier model was there no seal around the pulsating mechanism and I was concerned that water might get inside and damage the stimulator. Now it looks more waterproof and I am more confident when using this toy in the bath.
  • The noise level is much quieter now than in the earlier model. It still may be concerned loud to some however the sound is more like a vibrating hum than a loud hair trimmer motor sound.
  • The control buttons and power button. The Next Generation has only two buttons. The power button now lights up with a dim light to let you know that the power is on. There is no longer a light in the middle of the buttons like on the previous Satisfyer Pro 2. The control button is longer, narrower and curves a bit more with the plus & minus symbols on it.
  • The control button now allows the user to power up or power down instead of having to cycle up through all 11 settings to get back to the lowest setting on the previous model.

Now this is my type of sex toy. I love everything about it. It’s not often that I give a 100% or a 5 Star rating, but I couldn’t find anything wrong with it or anything that I didn’t like that would cause me to give this device a low score. This is my kind of sex toy. Different levels of vibrations, a straight vibration setting that ranges from low to intense.

Would I Recommend the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation?

YES! Absolutely. I enjoyed using the previous Satisfyer model, but now this Next Generation will be my toy of choice. I respect that the Satisfyer company actually listened & read the reviews, complaints and suggestions from their customers. The company changed some important issues with the Pro 2 and the result is the Next Generation. Well done.

Read my review on the earlier Satisfyer Pro 2 model

[Disclaimer: I received this product at a discounted or complimentary price for reviewing purposes. This will not influence my opinion or experience of this product. The blog post may or may not contain affiliate links.]


Vibease. My First Bluetooth Vibrator [Product Review]

I was so excited to receive the Vibease and disappointed after using it. I tried several Vibease, bluetooth vibrator, remote control vibrator, latina sex blogger, sex toy reviewtimes to give this little remote-controlled vibrator a thumbs up from my experience. But as many times as I tried I just couldn’t do it. Don’t get me wrong, the Vibease is a cool little toy keeping up with technology by connecting the vibrator to an app you can use on your smart phone. You can listen to erotic audiobooks, connect with your partner via the app who can also control the Vibease vibrator, chat with your partner.

What’s Inside the Box

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The Vibease is sealed in a clear plastic wrap. The product sleeve has information on 3 sides with the name & logo on the front. Opening the box you will find two charging cables (one short & one long). Two instruction booklets (one quick start & full user manual). One black drawstring bag for storage. I do like that there are two charging cables included. One long & one short. When I first looked where to put the charger into the Vibease I couldn’t see the tiny hole at the bottom.


I was really excited to get this vibrator. I thought of some many possibilities how to use it. But my disappointment would soon replace my excitement. First thing was to sync the Vibease with my iPhone. Downloading the app, reading the instructions and I still couldn’t get it to sync via Bluetooth. This is probably super simple for most people but for me, I just had a hell of a time getting it done.

I get easily annoyed with things that don’t start right away. I wanna just push a button and go. I don’t want to have to fiddle around with setting & syncing. I’m not saying that this Bluetooth toy isn’t any good, just not something I’m recommending if you’re like me and an impatient person.

What I didn’t like about the Vibease…

  • For me, it was annoying for me to have to sync up with my iPhone via Bluetooth. It disconnected on me a few times, for whatever reason, which is most annoying when I’m trying to have an orgasm.
  • I couldn’t find where it explains what those blue dots are for. I figured its a way of controlling the vibrations but how? How did I miss the instructions? Are there instructions. I found a few videos, but nothing that answered that question. I just kept swirling them around with my finger like Fruit Ninja.
  • I’m all for audio erotica, but I really felt uncomfortable listening to most of it. I tried not to laugh as well. I felt like most of it is scripted, sure I know it has to be but some of it really sounded bad.
  • The Vibease has a silicone outer covering. This causes the vibrator to collect lots of dust & debris. Which you can see in some of the photos.
  • The way that the Vibease is to be placed against the body seems counterproductive. The Vibease reminds me of a “Peep,” that small tip is to be placed against the clitoris and the rounded fatter end rests against the pubic area.
  • The vibrator kept moving away from my clit and seemed too heavy for my sexy panties. Even wearing my standby granny type panties wouldn’t hold it in place for me to achieve an orgasm.
  • The Audio erotica costs credits. You can buy the credits to purchase specific audios. There are several audios that are free to download and you can even sample most of them before you buy or download them. This is all possible through the app.
  • The Vibease does have several different settings, some of which can be powerful.

What I did Like about the Vibease…..

  • That this vibrator can be used with the app  or can be used alone. It is a very powerful little vibrator however holding it by hand does vibrate in your hand.
  • The Vibease offers so much in a small vibrator, but for me its too much.
  • I like that there are two charging cables with this product.
  • The Vibease app is available on both Google Play and iTunes app stores.
  • I love that this vibrator can be remotely controlled by your partner via the app in the Vibease Chat. You can select out of your contacts on your phone. Perfect for all kinds of titillating conversations.
  • The box was sealed in clear plastic, you get a black drawstring bag to keep everything afterwards.
  • The possibility of adding a new level into a long distance relationship is wonderful for those people who are in one.
  • I absolutely love the option of being able to record a voice fantasy or adding music to the app.


I would really like to say that I loved this Bluetooth vibrator, but I don’t. It was just overwhelmed me. I want to masturbate, I don’t want to power up, sync and plug-in my headphones while I listen to someone who sounds like they’re sucking on a popsicle for sound effects. Maybe I’m being too hard on the Vibease, this is my personal experience. I don’t want to walk around with a vibrator that wont stay in place in between my legs. It just frustrates me.

It’s not a bad vibrator, it is a good vibrator, just not for me. The Vibease isn’t something that I will use often.


[Disclaimer: I received this product at a discounted or complimentary price for reviewing purposes. This will not influence my opinion or experience of this product. The blog post may or may not contain affiliate links.]

Satisfyer Pro Penguin [Review]

I have reviewed the Satisfyer 2.

The second clitoral vibrator I received from the Satisfyer family is the Satisfyer Pro Penguin.

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The Satisfyer Pro Peguin is also a touch-free clitoral vibrator that uses the “pressure wave” technology.  The opening of the vibrator is placed over the clitoris to feel the vibrations made from the burst of air coming from the device. The Penguin also has 11 different levels of intense vibrations. However, instead of having two separate control buttons the penguin has combined the control buttons in one central area. Once the power button is pushed it will light up and stay lit until the device is turned off. You can increase the vibrations by pushing towards the button area of the control button.

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Something I do not like about Pro Penguin is that once you have pushed the power increase button you can not decrease the power until you have reached the maximum level. Once you have maxed out power then the Penguin will begin to decrease in its intensity back down to the lowest level.

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The Penguin is a lot smaller than the others. It’s about 5 inches in length and compared to the Satisfyer 2 the opening on the Penguin is larger with an obtuse angled head & neck with a rounded penguin-like body. This device is silky, smooth silicone texture verses the smooth plastic of the Satisfyer 2 and the Satisfyer Pro 2. The white silicone tip is removable for easy cleaning. It is also thinner than the Satisfyer 2. I experienced some roughness from the edges while using this device. I didn’t have a problem with the white removable tip falling off until the Penguin was used on me by my partner. When he would switch hands or move the vibrator around for some reason the tip would fall off. Not once but a few times which broke my concentration.

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After holding the Penguin for a few minutes I noticed that I feel the vibration more in my hand than I did with the other two Satisfyer’s. Perhaps because its smaller and is silicone that the vibration is more pronounced in this model than in the plastic models. This model has rechargeable li-ion batteries sealed inside the body and it comes with a magnetic USB charging cable.


  • The white silicone tip is too thin for my liking. Sometimes it fell out while in use or in transport.
  • The intensity/vibrating control button is like being on an elevator, going up (stopping at every floor) to the skydeck looking around and coming back down but also stopping on every floor. I prefer the Satisfyer 2’s +/- control button.
  • Wasn’t too thrilled with the “power on” light.

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  • I do like the size of the Penguin, the shape is kind of cute. I like the feel the silicone feels in my hands.
  • Contains Li-ion (rechargeable) batteries. The magnetic USB charging cable is included.
  • It is submergible. (Have not tested this device out underwater. I am kind of afraid too)
  • Affordable. Usually it’s less than $50.
  • Easy to clean
  • The device came inside its box that had two separate seals, to assure the customer that the device had not been previously opened.


Same Intense Orgasms as the Satisfyer 2.

I enjoyed testing this out as I did the other two Satifyer’s I received. This one was used by both myself during some “me time,” in which I did have some very intense toe-curling orgasms resulting in extreme wetness. I was not disappointed with the Penguin doing its job, I was only irritated when my partner was using on me and the white silicone tip kept falling out. When my partner would move the device or switch hands somehow the white insertable tip would fall out of the vibrator. Of course you are probably guessed how  annoyed I was when that happened, not to mention distracted, interrupted from reaching my orgasm.

After I had reached my orgasms, I decided to just play around with this toy. My partner laid down on his back, both of us had no expectations using this stimulator. His penis was flaccid and I placed the Penguin on his frenulum on a light-medium setting. I continued using my other hand on other areas of his penis. A few minutes passed by, when I felt his penis hardening. My partner reached an orgasm while I used the Penguin on him, just on that area. He shared that it was a different experience, different sensation and pleasurable. I’m not suggesting that the Penguin to used in this manner, I am merely sharing my experience using this stimulator.

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[Disclaimer: I received this product at a discounted or complimentary price for reviewing purposes. This will not influence my opinion or experience of this product. The blog post may or may not contain affiliate links.]

Satisfyer Pro 2 [Review]

The Satisfyer Pro 2 is the final review of my Satisfyer models.

Satisfyer Pro 2

All of the Satisfyer’s use the amazing kind of “pressure wave” technology. It feels like the device head is sucking but it’s actually using bursts of air to cause the vibration against your clitoris.

Each box has two Hygienic Seals on them. One on the edge of the box and the other was on the bottom of the box. A form of reassurance that the product has not been opened or used until I opened it for myself. On the sides of the box were the specs and general information about the device in several different languages.

Inside the box I found the Satisfyer Pro 2 and charging cable. There is a booklet of instructions also in several different languages. The booklet is broken down into Functions/Use, Cleaning, Storage and Material, Troubleshooting, Disposal and Safety Information. There is some helpful & useful information in the booklet. Also if you have any trouble with your Satisfyer Pro 2, there is an email provided.

Out of the three models that I received this one is my favorite.

What I didn’t like about the Satisfyer Pro 2:

  • There is a small circular light that is in between the power on/off and power control buttons. I don’t see the reason for this light, when the power button could be easily as efficient. The light is as bright as my iPhone is during the nighttime mode. It’s rather annoying when trying to use the device with a partner at night. I held my finger over the light while I used it with my partner. (See photo above).
  • There is no lowering the intensity of the vibrations. You must go through 11 settings to the top in order to get back down to the lowest setting.
  • This device like the others is not 100% waterproof. Water still gathers around the buttons. Not sure how much water actually gets inside of the device itself.
  • The noise level seems to be too loud for my liking. I wouldn’t chance using it in a house full of kids or a family reunion just out of paranoia. The noise at its highest sounds like a hair trimmer at the barber shop.

What I did like about the Satisfyer Pro 2:

  • I like the thick wide silicone removable tip on the devices head. The opening is smaller than the others, but for me that channeled the pulses more direct and intense.
  • Easy to wash and easy to clean. The silicone tip is removable and doesn’t fall off or move around during use. With this model the white silicone tip is not placed inside the nozzle or the head, but placed over the nozzle. I like this much better than the other two models I reviewed. (see photos below).
  • The fully charged device can last several uses even over days of not using.
  • The design of this specific device. Compared to the others, I prefer this model and design. The smooth feel in my hands, the size of the device is not as large as the Satisfyer 2 yet it is larger than the Satisfyer Pro Penguin. However, it does seem a bit heavier than the Satisfyer 2, but not enough that it would change my mind not to like it better.
  • 11 different intensity settings.
  • Affordable. Depending on where you but it from. I’ve seen it as high as $100 and as low as $50.
  • That is it rechargeable and comes with its own USB charging cable.

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Would I recommend the Satisfyer Pro 2?

Yes. Yes I would. I would also suggest if & when using it in water not to submerge it for a long time. To try to keep the device’s buttons from getting too much exposure to the water. Masturbation, Satisfyer Pro 2, sexblogger, latina, product review, Clitoral Vibrator

Be cautious when first using this device because the sensations are very intense. Especially if you’re not used such extreme vibration. I had previously mentioned in my other reviews that my orgasms are never disappointing. The orgasms are just as intensely satisfying as with the other models that I have used and reviewed. I would recommend this model above the other two, based on my personal experiences with all of three models (Satisfyer 2, Satisfyer Pro Penguin and Satisfyer Pro 2).

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[Disclaimer: I received this product at a discounted or complimentary price for reviewing purposes. This will not influence my opinion or experience of this product. The blog post may or may not contain affiliate links.]

Satisfyer 2 [Review]

I was expecting to receive one of the Satisfyer products and was thrilled when I received three of the Satisfyer’s to test out. I received the Satisfyer 2, Satisfyer Pro 2 and the Satisfyer Pro Penguin. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to review them together and compare them to each other or to review each one separately. I decided to do each one on its own starting with the Satisfyer 2.

These touch-free clitoral stimulators use a “pressure wave” technology. In which the opening of the stimulator is placed on the clit or the area to be stimulated, to feel what seems like suction, but is really bursts of air. The higher the setting you use the more intense and more vibration you feel on your selected area. I think because of the oval-shaped head and the deeper area pushes the air harder, faster to the selected area.

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I noticed that each box had two Hygienic Seals on them. One located on the edge of the box and the other was on the bottom of the box. A form of reassurance that the product has not been opened or used until I opened it for myself. On the sides of the box were the specs and general information about the device in several different languages.

Opening the box I found the Satisfyer 2 along with a booklet of instructions also in several different languages. The booklet is broken down into Functions/Use, Cleaning, Storage and Material, Troubleshooting, Disposal and Safety Information. There is some helpful & useful information in the booklet. Also if you have any trouble with your Satisfyer 2, there is an email provided. Something that made me wonder about was written under Safety Information and it states “Do not use the product to stimulate any part of the body for longer than 15 minutes.” WHY? What will happen if you do? How do they know it’s 15 minutes, might be 10 or 20 for someone else. But what happens???? I think I might be able to answer that, however let’s continue with this other information first.

The Satisfyer 2 requires 2 AAA batteries to use it. Batteries are inserted at the bottom of the product by twisting to the bottom section to the left. Insert 2 AAA batteries, place bottom back on, twist to the right and now all I have to do is turn it on.

The outside of the Satisfyer 2 is pretty straight forward. There is a circular power button and a long multi-speed power button with a + and – symbol on it.

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Before I used the product I held it in my hand, turned it on & off. I assumed that the on/off button was just a simple push, it is to turn the Satisfyer 2 on, but you must hold down the power button for a few seconds for it to shut off. I noticed that the power button is slightly slanted. I’m not sure if there is on purpose, part of the design or if maybe I pushed it in too hard. If you look closely in the photo below you can see where the button is lower on one end than it is on the other. The power still works fine.

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The + and – button control the intensity of the pressure wave or the vibration. It’s a steady vibration no different rhythms. When you start it you are on the lowest setting. This product has 11 different levels of intensity which are all pretty good. However if you have not used a product like this before it can be a bit intense in the beginning. I can have an orgasm within the first 10 minutes of using this product.

The volume level is a bit on the loud side. I placed it under a blanket on my bed and closed the bedroom door. Windows open, birds chirping and I could just hear a slight buzzing. When the device is wide open (highest setting) it sounds like a hedge trimmer or weed whacker or even a Dremel tool that is just idling.

I don’t like that I was unable to find a price on the Satisfyer website. However, I did find several varying prices through the internet. Anywhere from $49.99 to $29.98 and everything in between.

My Intense Orgasms

I didn’t have any expectations for myself or the product. I thought that because it’s battery operated that it might not last very long. However, so far it has lasted longer than I expected. I used it a handful of times at 20 minutes at a time with a middle to high intensity level and using the same batteries I put in there when I received the product.

I have never had such intense eye-rolling in the back of my head orgasms until I used this device. Generally speaking this device is fairly easy to use one-handed. I did use this device longer than 15 minutes as stated in the instruction booklet. After a while there was a slight burning tingling sensation. Not sure if that was part of the intensity but I rolled with it. It kind of reminded me when I used to go swimming and went to the bathroom immediately afterwards. There was that weird stinging sensation. The orgasms were super intense. I’m not sure if at one point I squirted or peed on myself.  I am 99% sure I squirted. This is not the norm for me. At this point after having so many intense orgasms I really don’t care.  I am never disappointed with my orgasms that I get when I use this device.


  • The device was not truly waterproof (Photos Below)
  • The control buttons were uneven (not sure if that was intentional or done by me pushing to hard)
  • Battery operated (2 AAA)


  • Easy to clean
  • Removable silicone tip (Photo Below)
  • Slim line design (easy to hold)
  • Multi-speed (11 speeds, from very light pressure waves to very intense)
  • Affordable
  • Lightweight
  • Body safe

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Recommendations & Conclusion

Let’s discuss the main defect of the Satisfyer 2. It claims that it is “waterproof” with a IPX7 rating.Satisfyer 2, sassycat3000, product review, sex toy review, sexblogger, latina

  • The term waterproof implies that the product will not be destroyed, damaged if submerged in water.
  • The IPX7 rating means that the device (should be) is protected from immersion in water up to 3 feet (1 meter).

Knowing now that this product has an issue with water entering the battery chamber, it would be my recommendation that when the Satisfyer 2 is used in the shower, bathtub or a time when water can enter that the batteries be removed as soon as possible after use. That the battery chamber be dried with a q-tip, dried as thoroughly as possible. Possibly stored upright in order for any excess water to drain out.

I noticed that when the bottom part of the Satisfyer 2 is secured, that there is a tiny lip that seems to be in place of an O-ring. Perhaps a clear plastic O-ring added to create a barrier in addition to that other lip already in the body of the product.

If the product is not used totally submerged in water maybe it should be dried with head of product down in order to allow any excess water to drain out and the silicone tip removed (and cleaned).

I would also suggest not using the control buttons while the device is being used under water. There is a likelihood of water leaking into the device while using the buttons.

My Satisfyer 2 still works after the batteries were replaced (with new ones)  from being shorted out due to water exposure. The product continues to work as it did in the beginning, but for how long I not sure.

I will not say do not buy this product, because it is affordable. It does cause intense orgasms. I did enjoy using it, however I am always skeptical when a product says that it is waterproof, requires batteries or has any type of opening with the possibility of water exposure. The product can not truly be 100% waterproof.

I think that the Satisfyer Family needs to consider changing their waterproof claim.

Food for thought: The iPhone 7 has a IP67 rating which means that it is protected against dust & water.  Yet water leakage is not covered under the warranty. And knowing what you know now after reading this review, ask yourself – Would you submerge the Satisfyer 2 under water intentionally?

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[Disclaimer: I received this product at a discounted or complimentary price for reviewing purposes. This will not influence my opinion or experience of this product. The blog post may or may not contain affiliate links.]



Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs [Product Review]

I don’t own a lot of BDSM sex toys. I’ve wanted to try a few new things. Sexy Slave, an estore provided me with this cool spreader bar kit. Sexy Slave is also providing the prize for the giveaway I am hosting. You still have time to enter! Winner will be announced December 26, 2016.


Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs


Included in this kit:

  • 4 Adjustable Velcro Wrist/Ankle Padded Cuffs
  • 1 Ball Gag
  • 1 Blindfold

Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs from Sexy Slave.

I received a 3 piece doggie style leg spreader that has ankle & wrists cuffs, ball gag and blindfold in the Amazon brown box. Inside the product was in a sealed silver bubble-lined envelope. The product needed two of these bags overlapped to cover the item which was inside a clear plastic bag sealed with a clear circular sticky. The spreader bar was inside and the two items were in separate zip-lock type bags.

The Spreader bar is about 16 inches long. The ankle cuffs are not detachable, secured as one piece of soft nylon material that makes up the bar. There are two separate bars within the securely sewed nylon material that prevent meg movement. Add 6 inches of nylon material for each ankle. Each ankle cuff is lined with a soft thick velour material.

What I liked about the Spreader Bar…..

  • The price is reasonable for the 3 items in this kit.
  • The product arrived quickly from the Seller.
  • The nylon material that covers the bar is thick and doesn’t irritate the skin. The velour material was thick on the inside of the ankle & wrist cuffs.
  • The ball gag has holes through it for easy breathing. It is about 1.5 inches in diameter and fits around the head 16 -20  inches. I like this ball gag better than the hard plastic one I tried before. The gag secures by a buckle.
  • The bar is comfortable to wear, doesn’t irritate the skin. A soft velour material is on the inside of each cuff which also is good for absorption of sweat.
  • Each cuff is secured by Velcro, for a comfortable fit. But the cuffs are secured to the bar by a heavy stitching.

What I didn’t like about the Spreader Bar…..

  • That the ball gag was just a little to big. We had to punch a few extra holes in it to make it feel more comfortable. I did notice with my experience that if the ball wasn’t centered that one side would “pinch” the corner of my mouth and make it a little raw.
  • I do have a concern about the cleaning of the ball gag since the ball is movable and is secured on a section of leather material. I wonder about mold or bacteria growing after the material remains wet and/or air dries.
  • The mask is a kind of cheesy, more like a cheap little add-on. It is thin, light shines through, but not easy to detect items.
  • Not sure how one cleans the bar.


Would I recommend this Spreader Bar kit?

I would have to say yes. Because it is worth the price (less than $20) The bar is sturdy, durable and covered in a thick and comfortable nylon material. The ball gag has breathable holes, thick material and is unlikely to fall apart quickly. The bar is comfortable to wear, it doesn’t irritate my skin. Although I did find that using this spreader is hard on the hamstring muscles if the muscles are tight. Start stretching them out before using to prevent leg cramp!

The company offers a 30 day hassle free return policy

[Disclaimer: I received the product complimentary for reviewing purposes. The blog post may contain affiliate links]

Erotica for Women and Couples [Review]

During the day, I’m normally home alone. That’s when I like to enjoy my “me-time.” I have some links saved for some of the porn videos that I like. I’m not a woman who gets upset if my man watches porn. I am also not a woman who needs a specific type of porn to get off. I just click on a few videos and see where those led me

I know there are women who prefer to read erotica and watch the soft, classy erotica, not the hardcore sometimes brutal sex videos that are made by men for me. When I was asked to review the website called What I found inside website was pretty amazing for a small startup business that was launched in 2014 by Anna Richards.


  • You will find a bit of everything in this website. There are 6 main pages; Updates which gives the recent erotic videos. Erotic films is  the library of videos with a brief summary underneath, the time length, model’s name and the content of the video. I haven’t found any videos that over 30 minutes long. Stories page which displays the most recent written erotica. You have the option of reading the written story or to watch the video. At the bottom of the story there is the author’s name and a link to them. You can click to the main author’s page which listed all of them. There are several different authors with their bios, stories listed along with their websites. There is also a partnership with exclusive discounts for Frolicme members. The magazine page is full of interesting articles, sexy erotic photos and what I really thought was cool is the confession page. You can submit your very own confession or fantasy for publication on the magazine page. At the bottom of each page you’ll find lots of links to same main pages that are on top. In addition to some good general information about membership and about the creator/owner of the website Anna.
  • The videos are amazing to watch. There’s relaxing, chill out music playing in the beginning, fades out and then fades in to the sounds of moans & heavy breathing. They are professional and the models are beautiful. There are videos of male/female solo, threesomes, lesbians, anal with some bdsm mixed in, just a bit of everything in there. Anna gives her brief written summary under the videos, however you have the option of reading the full story in addition watching the video which was created from the story.  The pages have full stories in addition to the erotic video along with the photo gallery. There are new videos uploaded weekly. The videos have different options for downloading each film from 360p HD through to the highest quality 1080p HD. The photos are also available for members to download.

The Design

The website is very pretty in pink. It gives you a soft, feminine feeling when you view it. There are three main colors. Pink for most the links, black text with a white background. It’s simple. The site itself is very easy, simple to find your way around. Some things overlap, but that’s not overly noticeable or bothersome. Members have the option of leaving comments on videos and stories, however there is no members directory. You can not click on a member’s profile name. I don’t think members are not there to necessarily interact with each other. The states it can be viewed on almost all devices and members can download videos and photos from those devices.

Membership is based in England. There may be a variation due to the international exchange rates. Membership for Frolicme.comWhen you sign up for the newsletter you will receive a free video for your viewing. Which I think is a great little thank you gift for subscribing to the newsletter. It may also peek enough curiosity to sign up for a membership. There is even an option to upgrading your account if you wish to do so.

You can only view certain articles in the magazine section of the website. Members only get full access to all pages, stories and video and galleries. A non-member can see the photos but can not enlarge them like members can.


Anna Richards has created a classy, sexy erotic website for women and couples. It’s all pretty much straight forward navigating through the website. Some erotica is written by Anna in addition to several published authors. The erotica is all original content and can not (should not) be found anywhere else but on The videos and the stories to go hand & hand. Works great for those who want to read or who are visual. With the other authors she has submitting their work, there should always be some hot & steamy scenes and stories.  Anna has put her heart into and I can see that. The site shows sexual intercourse, love-making in a classy, seductive and romantic way. There are no seedy or violent, demeaning videos here. I like that the site has incorporated the option of buying sex toys from

[Note:  Ordering is made easy, by allowing you to select your location like the US or UK and that specific page loads there for you].

That way if let’s say my spouse & I are members, watching a video or reading a story together and we get brave and decide to order a sex toy on the impulse, it’s that easy to do. I can see that bringing some spice back into a relationship.

The site is full of beautifully taken erotic photos of nude and semi-nude models. All the media is HD and professional . Photos can be enlarged as well.

There are excerpts from the author’s books, a promo for the author’s work. There are links to buy the books and the authors social media.

The magazine section is a source of articles about sex, topics that provoke thought in the reader. Members can leave comments. offers an affiliate program for those interested.

The One Thing I Would Suggest

  • There are some internet photos used in the sidebar (that are  assumed to be in the public domain). That’s great, nothing wrong with that. Why not ask for photo submissions from some of the Sex Bloggers community or amateur photographers?  Offer something similar to the author’s section. A brief bio page or even a paragraph of the photographer, model, sex blogger. There are some really beautifully erotic photographs taken by some amateur photographers that would love some possible exposure. is one of the finalists for this year’s 2017 XBIZ awards for Erotic Site of the Year. This says a lot for an independent startup business like this one. is running against some big names in the adult film industry such as;,, The quality of film, stories and galleries are professional, all original content written by several different published authors in addition to Anna’s own material throughout the site. I wish a congratulations on their second nomination for this competition and wishing them all the luck to win!
[Disclaimer: I received this product at a discounted or complimentary price for reviewing purposes. This will not influence my opinion or experience of this product. The blog post may or may not contain affiliate links. My apologizes to Anna Richards for the delay in this review. Thank you for your patience.]

I got The Butters! [Product Review]

Get The ButtersI’m sure you’ve used water-based lube and realize that its sticky and clean up is a but of a pain in the ass. I was given the opportunity to test some new kind of lube-The Butters. It will remind you of softened butter when you put it on your skin. It’s homemade lubricant that can also be used for other things such as leather conditioner, makeup remover, hair & skin conditioner.

Jerome Stuart Nichols created an all natural lubricate. The Butters has all natural ingredients such as aloe shea butter, coconut oil, grapeseed, olive oil, soybean oil, palm oil and some arrowroot along apple cider vinegar.

I was really impressed with The Butters. It came in a black plastic sealed jar. There is a lot of information on the label such as the ingredients, website info and importantly mentioned that this lube should not be used with latex.

What I liked about The Butters:

  • Is that is homemade. Made in the USA.
  • That was created out of a need.
  • It is available in 4 different sizes. From 4 ounces up to 48 ounces.
  • The price is perfect, less than $10. The Butters is very affordable.
  • I really like that when it comes to cleaning up there is not a lot of soap & water needed. The Butters seems to absorb into the skin without any problems. I hated using store-bought lube and when it gets wet it becomes slick and then turns sticky. With The Butters I don’t have to worry about that. I don’t have to worry a lot about cleaning up after sex if I don’t want to.
  • I also love the idea that if I don’t use it as a personal lube I can just as well use The Butters as a skin moisturizer, which I have. I used it on my rough cuticles and it softened them right up. I used it as a leather conditioner for a dried leather bracelet I had. It did darkened the leather just a bit, but that didn’t matter to me as much as it softened up the bracelet.
  • I have used it to remove my eye makeup once or twice. It felt soft on my eyes. It a few seconds to actually rub into my skin, which then felt very smooth and soft.
  • The Butters did give me a sensation of fiction when I used it with my hubby. I just added a little but more and had no issues after that.
  • It’s not runny, its creamy & doesn’t melt with body heat.

What I didn’t like about The Butters:

  • When I opened the jar for the first time there was a hint of something. I just couldn’t put my finger on the scent. It does have an odor of something. Not too bothersome though.
  • It does leave some oil stains marks, it just depends on what you get it on.
  • Since it is made from all natural in it can be eaten, but shouldn’t be. I did dip my finger in it and tasted it out of curiosity. It was not something I would make a habit of doing. It’s not gonna be to tasty when it gets in your mouth either on purpose or accident.


There isn’t a lot I don’t like about The Butters.  Even if you don’t use it as a personal lube, it’s really good as a skin moisturizer. It may take some to get used to the natural scent of this product, but the non-greasy feeling out weighs that.  I did wonder if there is a shelf-life to this product. According to the website it should last about 6 months and longer if kept refrigerated. I was not disappointed with this product and found reading about its creation interesting. I admire Jerome for creating The Butters our of a need. You can read his sex blog at Ltasex and you can choose to sponsor him at Patreon.

[Disclaimer: Received this product complimentary or at a discounted price for my testing purposes]

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