Let’s Watch some Porn [WW190]

Wicked Wednesday’s topic isPORN!!!”

I remember a time when some women and wives would get so offended, disgusted and upset if their spouse or boyfriend would watch porn. Why?

I remember a time when there was a huge discussion that Porn caused all kinds of problems. A person could even become addicted to watching porn. I did often if I have become addicted to porn. Maybe it has even caused a rip in the foundation of my marriage.

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Do you watch it? Yes. Everyday. I swear I have the soul of sometimes typical male. Sometimes, it’s just easier for me to watch porn. Masturbate. Then go about my day, without the hassle of intimacy, relationship and emotions. I get easily frustrated, disappointed when the sex is not satisfying.

The issue that concerns me is that I can watch it for HOURS. Sometimes I start around noon (or when the urge hits me) and when prolong my orgasm, deny it and continue until 2pm. There was one day that I watched porn pretty much all morning started at 10 finished around 2pm. Another issue is that it takes me longer to orgasm when having sex with my beloved. Not sure if it’s because of the porn or if it’s because of my own issues; like boredom and routine.

I have videos bookmarked in my browser bar, all divided into categories for a quick peek.

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Do you like to watch it? I love watching it. I will watch just about anything. Sometimes I look at stuff just out of curiosity. Either because I am not familiar with any of it or because I wonder what I can find in that specific group. I like starting out on one video and clicking on the suggestions, moving to another area and so forth. I like “learning” different things. Like that is pretty much videos for everything and anything. From gay men sniffing each other’s socks to clown sex. That kind of porn is not for me, just fascinating to see what’s out there.

Do you watch it together?  Does your partner watch it? Do you mind when he/she watches it?  No. Yes. No.

We have watched it together in the past when we first got married. But after it awhile he lost interest in doing that. It’s like it got boring for both of us. There were other factors involved as well.

He has his DVD’s that we had bought together once upon a time. We used to have a large box of dvd’s and vhs tapes from a friend whose video store went out of business. My hubby decided that it was not a good thing to have all that porn in the house. He tries very much to fight his inner demons of lust. He felt that he could get into spiritual, marital trouble if he continued to watch them, to have them in our home. So, he got rid of most of them. However, there are times when he now watches them.

He can watch porn when he wants to, however there is a “house rule” that we can not masturbate IF we are both in the house. If he watched porn in his office and wants to have his orgasm he can “use” me for that. I can do the same as well. It works for us.

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Do you get anything from porn? A quick release of tension and stress. However, for a while I felt that I was watching porn as a way to get that “feel good” high when I was emotionally low. Instead of the drugs, random sex and alcohol that I would regularly use in the past I replaced with the porn. I can go days without watching it, especially when my beloved is home.

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Do you think watching porn is  good or bad thing, or are you totally indifferent to porn? I think that porn can become a problem if not monitored. I think that it affects the mind more than anything. It can be damaging to growing adolescents, their views on sex, control etc. It can get out of hand when a person thinks about the next time they can watch porn or if they prefer watching to real intercourse.

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