Monday Morning Masturbating [MM131]

It’s a gray drizzly day in Northern Illinois. However, I made it through Monday with a smile on my face after receiving & reading these text along with these photos.

Good morning, Cat….. Thought of your new bra and wanted to show you the effect. I love seeing your breasts swelled in the cups. I like the color and the delicate decoration displaying such beautiful cleavage. It almost looks like your hand is between your thighs, I’d like to think you fingering your clit while taking your photo. Would love to see more of this brassiere, with you in it, of course.

….I woke up thinking of these pics….. I looked at them briefly before going to bed. You are desirable and I got hard thinking of you and as I squeezed my balls and stroked my cock I decided to show you….. the feeling of lust was still there, so I thought of sucking your nipples as I stroked my cock and felt myself cumming so I grabbed my phone.

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As I look at this new photo I may have to masturbate again….You are incredibly sexy, Cat….

I was busy with family things today. However, I arrived home an hour before I had to drive out-of-town for the second half of my work day. I’m sure you can imagine what I was doing before I had to leave for work.

I hope you enjoyed Masturbation Monday as much as we did!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

A Cleavage Tribute

 

Dick pictures. I do not like when a man sends them in a first contact email or direct message,  EXCEPT when those photos come from someone I know and when those photos are tribute photos. Those are the best!

I welcome those anytime and every time.

Recently I received some tributes photos that used my cleavage vamp photos, Sinful Sunday Vamp photos.

I find those photos hot. Why? Because I get off (not sexually, but mentality & emotionally) knowing that a man is wanking off to my photos. I feel sexy & desirable.

My favorite of all of them is the first one below.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

http://mollysdailykiss.com/february-photofest/

 

 

 

Spending time behind Bars….

Well….what the fuck?!

Where have you been hiding?

More like who have you been hiding under?

Most of ya’ll should know that Mr. Sam is keep me occupied from my boredom. OH there’s that word. I recently learned in my brief return to therapy or counseling which ever term you prefer to use, that the word boredom is one of my triggers.

I have not learned any solutions – yet. Still working on my homework & research for that.

My Beloved knows how quickly I get bored. How easily I can be distracted as well. Mostly he knows how important it is to be able to just feel the wind on my face & through my hair. Thoughts, ideas and other stuff fill my head. Listening for some answers from the universe. There is only one way I know how to do this. Riding a motorcycle. But the two that he’s bought for me in the past few years just don’t feel as comfortable as I would like my bike to feel.

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Suffering from PTSD from my motorcycle accident I tend to be skittish on my bike. It has to fit good for me now to ease the flashbacks. He located a 2005 Harley Davidson Dyna Super Glide and purchased it for me.

It’s perfect. Well, almost. The seat does spread me, causing me to walk as if I had been fucked every which way. Other than that its great. So Friday when I was supposed to meet up with Mr. Sam I went for a ride, by myself. Did I mention I had been (and still am) sick with a cough due to post nasal drip?

I’m riding every chance I get. Still a bit afraid of the traffic and the flashbacks but I push myself forward. I’m seeking answers for the questions that I really don’t want answers too.

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PS….Thanks to Damon @5150silverback for the riding goggles!!! GO FOLLOW him…he’s an awesome efriend & twitter mate!!!

My Mouth Couldn’t Handle the Overflow [MM125]

Continuing from “Having Drinks with Mr. Sam” ….

Mr. Sam & I got comfortable in his room. He turned on his TV. I laid on the bed. We watched tv for a bit. Talking about the cool tv shows that each of us has watched. He lies on the bed opposite direction of me. I’m touching his leg and he is laying there looking at me. There are no words, just the background noise of the TV. I’m just touching him, caressing him and we are enjoying each other’s company. I crawled up to his lips and kissed him. We kissed for a while, but not for long. I pulled up his shirt so I could feel his skin.

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I stared deep into his eyes, smiled at him. I unbuckled his belt and unzipped his jeans. He watched me, helping me push down his jeans, he pulls off his thermal shirt. I run my fingers over his chest. Kissing his tummy, moving down to his semihard cock. I took his cock in my hand, stroking it gently but nothing too serious, nothing that would get him super excited. I held his cock in one hand and rubbed the head with my other hand, circular motions. I heard a few sounds of enjoyment from his lips. He laid his head back and shut his eyes. Then he would glance up at me and watch me again. Stroking more. What I  enjoyed was massaging his balls. I deliberately move my fingers over his pubic hair, his response was a turn on. He sighed and took a deep gasp, his head back with his eyes shut. When I paused he glanced at me.

I gave him that look. I took his cock into my mouth. He has a nice-looking cock. He’s cock is standard size, I like the way it looks and how it feels in my mouth. His cock isn’t too thick but thank goodness it isn’t too thin either. He’s very natural with his wild, long dark pubic hair. He watches me take all his cock into my mouth. I feel the bottom of his cock and I breathe in his scent. My hands are caressing his body, fingers moving through his pubic hair and the other hand caressing his balls. My mouth moves up & down his rod, my tongue swirls around the tip with a light force and I listen to him moan once again. Deep. Deeper. His cock hits the back of my throat. I didn’t struggle to accommodate him in nor did his cock make my eyes (this time). I was taking him in slowly, Playing with him, teasing him, watching his response with every move. There was a sexblogger, latina, sex stories, oral sex, blowjobmoment when I was sucking on him, licking his cock with my tongue. I glanced at him and he watched at me. It’s not something I regularly do when giving a lover a blowjob. It’s something that makes me feel like I am connecting with the man and that’s not always a good idea. But Mr. Sam is tender, sensitive and has demons that torment him more than mine ever do.

I saw him settle back into his pillow, his arm over his forehead. He’s breathing hard, his body is tight. My hands reach up his chest. I suck faster. I listen to him moan, this excites me on to hear him. I reposition myself to the middle of his legs. One hand on his now erect cock, kneeling I suck on him quicker. Harder. He’s moving his pelvis up & down to fuck my mouth. His movement is matching mine, I felt his hands on the sides of my head as I’m sucking him. He wanted to hold on to my head as he fucked my mouth with his hard cock. But his hands don’t stay on my head. He quickly let’s go of my head. I felt his body tighten even more as he stretches out. The deep breathing and moaning is increasing. I take his cock down to the bottom and swallow expecting that he is about to come. I watch his back arch slightly and I feel the surge of his hot creamy milk hit the back of my throat. I’m drinking and consuming his hot milk, suddenly I can no longer keep up with the volume of cream that is filling up my mouth. He tastes sharp, bitter and salty. I felt his cock softened, his body was relaxed. I let his cock slip gently from my mouth. It was still dripping a little of cum and that’s when I took the picture.

Afterwards I joked with Mr. Sam “I couldn’t keep up with the overflow. That’s never happened before.”

With a chuckle in his voice he jokes “Overflow. That’s another new nickname for you.”

Good to the last drop” is the next post about Mr. Sam

New Years Letter from 2016 to 2017

Dear 2017,

 

I wanted to tell you a bit about me, last year 2016.

A few of my best moments were…

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  • Going to Chicago and meeting two bands “Beware of Darkness” and “The Struts.” They are two very down to earth bands who are so approachable you forget they’re famous. The Struts have had their songs played in the new TV show “Lethal Weapon” and Beware of Darkness has their song “Howl” in the movie “Bad Santa 2.”Gethin Davies The Struts
  • Getting to go to New Orleans to see both of the above bands AGAIN! Only this time with VIP passes. I have always wanted to go to Nola and I did. Fucking Amazing! I walked the streets of Nola with a few of the band members. A dream come true.

  • Meeting some new people, like Mr. Sam. Even thought he drives me crazy. Hanging out with the drunks at the bar, writing about The Bar, The Booze and Me. Sure, it shouldn’t be one of the best moments, but they were so fun god damn moments!
  • Receiving two Blogging Awards Molly’s Top 100 Sex Blogs and Rebel’s Top 20 Blogs of ’16. Knowing a few of my peers here, think that I have what it takes to run with some of the big dogs makes my clit hard! 😉
  • Receiving gifts from a few of my followers/fans. This tickled my pretty pink places and those men get top treatment from me when ever I can give it. Finding some new blogs to follow.
  • Having more companies approach me to write reviews. This is great, especially the different stuff. I don’t like reviewing the stuff that every one writes about. Provide some variety out here.

Some of the difficult, hard or worst times….

  • At the top of the list would have been losing Charlie. We ended our friendship in early October then he left from “camp.” I didn’t get to say goodbye to him, I haven’t heard from him and probably never will. I heard unfounded rumors that he has cancer. Not sure if I want to know if its true or not. I even found some journal entries that I wrote about that time in my life.
  • Early June the Manchild was in a car accident and totaled his new car. Financially that set him back, set us back a bit as well. We bought a used truck for him to drive. He moved back to Illinois this October. That’s the silver lining. However, financially we have struggled just enough to feel at times uncomfortable.
  • During the summer, the Beloved was home due to two hand surgeries. He was unable to do pretty much anything and everything. He just sat around all summer watching movie and eating. His 42 yrs of being on the job is finally catching up to him, his body can’t take it like when he was in this 20’s. It’s difficult to see him uncomfortable and in pain.

My Hopes for you 2017…

  • Continue blogging, writing and journaling everything and anything. To blog about being a person with Borderline Personality Disorder, followed by all the stuff that happens due to having BPD.
  • To continue to review products for companies, not just sex toys but health, beauty and household, reviews.
  • To learn discipline with blogging. To finish the challenges I start. To get more creative with the sex stories that are based on my (sometimes Borderline driven) issues.
  • To learn to be a better friend to those who reach out to me.
  • To learn why a certain type of male is attracted to me and how to break that cycle.
  • To learn more about the Law of Attraction.

Focusing on you 2017….

  • Continuing to focus on this website, blogging and photography. I think that we have finally found somewhat of a niche in the blogosphere.
  • Focusing on education. Read somewhere that there are FREE classes at the local library. Lets look into that, maybe some writing courses, computer courses would be helpful, don’t you think so?
  • Focusing on getting the household in order and really doing it this year!
  • Mental Health, keeping focus on the triggers so that I don’t get in over my head when it comes to certain things.
  • My Marriage, not to neglect it and to appreciate it. Everything else can burn away, but without him in my life I would be lost.

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There are some of my highlights and lowlights, so 2017 I do hope you can be a little more focused, determined. Following me shouldn’t be too bad, there is always more to learn, more to smile about. Laugh, someone said not to take yourself too serious, have fun with what you do. Don’t always be afraid to show the emotion, let yourself shine 2017.

Thanks for the memories,

Best Wishes from Year 2016

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Announcing the Winner

I want to send a bug THANK YOU to Sexy Slave for providing the Extreme 11-Piece Restraints Kit Under Bed Bondage Ankle Wrist Cuff Restraint Set as the prize in this giveaway.

A special THANK YOU to everyone who participated in our contest and helped make it a success!

Winner of the Sexy Slave Giveaway

 

Congratulations to the winner of this giveaway

 Michael of Columbus Ohio

Don’t worry about not winning this giveaway, you’ll have another chance to win in my next contest!

 

Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs [Product Review]

I don’t own a lot of BDSM sex toys. I’ve wanted to try a few new things. Sexy Slave, an estore provided me with this cool spreader bar kit. Sexy Slave is also providing the prize for the giveaway I am hosting. You still have time to enter! Winner will be announced December 26, 2016.

 

Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs

 

Included in this kit:

  • 4 Adjustable Velcro Wrist/Ankle Padded Cuffs
  • 1 Ball Gag
  • 1 Blindfold

Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs from Sexy Slave.

I received a 3 piece doggie style leg spreader that has ankle & wrists cuffs, ball gag and blindfold in the Amazon brown box. Inside the product was in a sealed silver bubble-lined envelope. The product needed two of these bags overlapped to cover the item which was inside a clear plastic bag sealed with a clear circular sticky. The spreader bar was inside and the two items were in separate zip-lock type bags.

The Spreader bar is about 16 inches long. The ankle cuffs are not detachable, secured as one piece of soft nylon material that makes up the bar. There are two separate bars within the securely sewed nylon material that prevent meg movement. Add 6 inches of nylon material for each ankle. Each ankle cuff is lined with a soft thick velour material.

What I liked about the Spreader Bar…..

  • The price is reasonable for the 3 items in this kit.
  • The product arrived quickly from the Seller.
  • The nylon material that covers the bar is thick and doesn’t irritate the skin. The velour material was thick on the inside of the ankle & wrist cuffs.
  • The ball gag has holes through it for easy breathing. It is about 1.5 inches in diameter and fits around the head 16 -20  inches. I like this ball gag better than the hard plastic one I tried before. The gag secures by a buckle.
  • The bar is comfortable to wear, doesn’t irritate the skin. A soft velour material is on the inside of each cuff which also is good for absorption of sweat.
  • Each cuff is secured by Velcro, for a comfortable fit. But the cuffs are secured to the bar by a heavy stitching.

What I didn’t like about the Spreader Bar…..

  • That the ball gag was just a little to big. We had to punch a few extra holes in it to make it feel more comfortable. I did notice with my experience that if the ball wasn’t centered that one side would “pinch” the corner of my mouth and make it a little raw.
  • I do have a concern about the cleaning of the ball gag since the ball is movable and is secured on a section of leather material. I wonder about mold or bacteria growing after the material remains wet and/or air dries.
  • The mask is a kind of cheesy, more like a cheap little add-on. It is thin, light shines through, but not easy to detect items.
  • Not sure how one cleans the bar.

 

Would I recommend this Spreader Bar kit?

I would have to say yes. Because it is worth the price (less than $20) The bar is sturdy, durable and covered in a thick and comfortable nylon material. The ball gag has breathable holes, thick material and is unlikely to fall apart quickly. The bar is comfortable to wear, it doesn’t irritate my skin. Although I did find that using this spreader is hard on the hamstring muscles if the muscles are tight. Start stretching them out before using to prevent leg cramp!

The company offers a 30 day hassle free return policy

[Disclaimer: I received the product complimentary for reviewing purposes. The blog post may contain affiliate links]

Packing Cubes Set Travel Luggage Organizers [Product Review]

I’m traveling to New Orleans in a few weeks, flying with Spirit Airlines. I read that they have some specific rules about luggage. I’m only going for 4 days, but we know that most of us have to pack everything but the kitchen sink in our luggage.

How am I gonna fit everything into a 16X14X12 size carry-on bag?

I researched and found that lots of travelers are using the idea of package cubes to organize their carry-on. Could this really work? Doesn’t that add extra space? Well I wanted answers, plus I wanted to try and pack as much as I can into just one bag.

I shopped around locally to find the package cubes. The box stores sold the cubes for around $24.99-29.99 for just three of them. With my WeekEight Packing Cubes Set Travel Luggage Organizer Bags I received 3 Cubes 3 Pouches for $29.99. That was worth it to me. I figured I can use the small laundry bag for my dirty intimidates and just repack the rest of the clothes in to the cubes when I return home.

What I didn’t like about the Packing Cubes Set Travel Luggage Organizers:

  • Is that they are NOT waterproof. I did test out the bags with my socks inside. I dropped them into the sink of water. Sadly, my socks got wet. I even had to ring out one sock because it was so wet.
  • The zippers on the cubes & bags seem a bit weak, appear to be easily broken. I recommend handling with care, maybe don’t over pack the cubes to prevent breaking the zipper.

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What I did like about the Packing Cubes Set Travel Luggage Organizers:

  • You receive three packing cubes and three laundry bags. The cubes are more like mini suitcases to organize your clothes in. The laundry bags are smaller and not as expandable as the cubes, but still have some room.  I recommend the laundry bags for socks, undies.
  • The price, you get more for the amount you pay. I’ve seen some cubes where there are only three of them for the same price.
  • The luggage organizers come in 6 different colors.
  • The cubes have handles on them so they can be carried individually if necessary.
  • There is no odor with these organizers. I have read in some other reviews that they had a musky, moldy smell. But mine do not. I would recommend washing them anyway. Yes they are washable and that’s a plus.
  • The cubes have two zippers, in case one stops working. The laundry bags only have one zipper.

I do like these organizers. I would recommend these for travel. Inexpensive price and you should get a few good uses with them as long as you don’t over-pack them. I’m happy with my purchase and they worked perfectly for my weekend trip.

 

 

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