New Years Letter from 2016 to 2017

Dear 2017,

 

I wanted to tell you a bit about me, last year 2016.

A few of my best moments were…

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  • Going to Chicago and meeting two bands “Beware of Darkness” and “The Struts.” They are two very down to earth bands who are so approachable you forget they’re famous. The Struts have had their songs played in the new TV show “Lethal Weapon” and Beware of Darkness has their song “Howl” in the movie “Bad Santa 2.”Gethin Davies The Struts
  • Getting to go to New Orleans to see both of the above bands AGAIN! Only this time with VIP passes. I have always wanted to go to Nola and I did. Fucking Amazing! I walked the streets of Nola with a few of the band members. A dream come true.

  • Meeting some new people, like Mr. Sam. Even thought he drives me crazy. Hanging out with the drunks at the bar, writing about The Bar, The Booze and Me.¬†Sure, it shouldn’t be one of the best moments, but they were so fun god damn moments!
  • Receiving two Blogging Awards Molly’s Top 100 Sex Blogs and Rebel’s Top 20 Blogs of ’16. Knowing a few of my peers here, think that I have what it takes to run with some of the big dogs makes my clit hard! ūüėČ
  • Receiving gifts from a few of my followers/fans. This tickled my pretty pink places and those men get top treatment from me when ever I can give it. Finding some new blogs to follow.
  • Having more companies approach me to write reviews. This is great, especially the different stuff. I don’t like reviewing the stuff that every one writes about. Provide some variety out here.

Some of the difficult, hard or worst times….

  • At the top of the list would have been losing Charlie. We ended our friendship in early October then he left from “camp.” I didn’t get to say goodbye to him, I haven’t heard from him and probably never will. I heard unfounded rumors that he has cancer. Not sure if I want to know if its true or not. I even found some journal entries that I wrote about that time in my life.
  • Early June the Manchild was in a car accident and totaled his new car. Financially that set him back, set us back a bit as well. We bought a used truck for him to drive. He moved back to Illinois this October. That’s the silver lining. However, financially we have struggled just enough to feel at times uncomfortable.
  • During the summer, the Beloved was home due to two hand surgeries. He was unable to do pretty much anything and everything. He just sat around all summer watching movie and eating. His 42 yrs of being on the job is finally catching up to him, his body can’t take it like when he was in this 20’s. It’s difficult to see him uncomfortable and in pain.

My Hopes for you 2017…

  • Continue blogging, writing and journaling everything and anything. To blog about¬†being a person with Borderline Personality Disorder, followed by all the stuff that happens due to having BPD.
  • To continue to review products for companies, not just sex toys but health, beauty and household, reviews.
  • To learn discipline¬†with blogging. To finish the challenges I start. To get more creative with the¬†sex stories that are based on my (sometimes Borderline driven) issues.
  • To learn to be a better friend to those who reach out to me.
  • To learn why a certain type of male is attracted to me and how to break that cycle.
  • To learn more about the Law of Attraction.

Focusing on you 2017….

  • Continuing to focus on this website, blogging and photography. I think that we have finally found somewhat of a niche in the blogosphere.
  • Focusing on education. Read somewhere that there are FREE classes at the local library. Lets look into that, maybe some writing courses, computer courses would be helpful, don’t you think so?
  • Focusing on getting¬†the household in order and really doing it this year!
  • Mental Health, keeping focus on¬†the triggers so that I don’t get in over my head when it comes to certain things.
  • My Marriage, not to neglect it and to appreciate it. Everything else can burn away, but without him in my life I would be lost.

happy new year 2017, sassycat3000, copyright @sassycat3000.net

There are some of my highlights and lowlights, so 2017 I do hope you can be a little more focused, determined. Following me shouldn’t be too bad, there is always more to learn, more to smile about. Laugh, someone said not to take yourself too serious, have fun with what you do. Don’t always be afraid to show the emotion, let yourself shine 2017.

Thanks for the memories,

Best Wishes from Year 2016

Year

Announcing the Winner

I want to send a bug THANK YOU to Sexy Slave for providing the Extreme 11-Piece Restraints Kit Under Bed Bondage Ankle Wrist Cuff Restraint Set as the prize in this giveaway.

A special THANK YOU to everyone who participated in our contest and helped make it a success!

Winner of the Sexy Slave Giveaway

 

Congratulations to the winner of this giveaway

 Michael of Columbus Ohio

Don’t worry about not winning this giveaway, you’ll have another chance to win in my next contest!

 

Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs [Product Review]

I don’t own a lot of BDSM sex toys. I’ve wanted to try a few new things. Sexy Slave, an estore provided me with this cool spreader bar kit. Sexy Slave is also providing the prize for the giveaway I am hosting. You still have time to enter! Winner will be announced December 26, 2016.Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs

 

Included in this kit:

  • 4 Adjustable Velcro Wrist/Ankle Padded Cuffs
  • 1 Ball Gag
  • 1 Blindfold

Doggy Style Spreader Bar with Wrist & Ankle Cuffs from Sexy Slave.

I received a 3 piece doggie style leg spreader that has ankle & wrists cuffs, ball gag and blindfold in the Amazon brown box. Inside the product was in a sealed silver bubble-lined envelope. The product needed two of these bags overlapped to cover the item which was inside a clear plastic bag sealed with a clear circular sticky. The spreader bar was inside and the two items were in separate zip-lock type bags.

The Spreader bar is about 16 inches long. The ankle cuffs are not detachable, secured as one piece of soft nylon material that makes up the bar. There are two separate bars within the securely sewed nylon material that prevent meg movement. Add 6 inches of nylon material for each ankle. Each ankle cuff is lined with a soft thick velour material.

What I liked about the Spreader Bar…..

  • The price is reasonable for the 3 items in this kit.
  • The product arrived quickly from the Seller.
  • The nylon material that covers the bar is thick and doesn’t irritate the skin. The velour material was thick on the inside of the ankle & wrist cuffs.
  • The ball gag has holes through it for easy breathing. It is about 1.5 inches in diameter and fits around the head 16 -20¬† inches. I like this ball gag better than the hard plastic one I tried before. The gag secures by a buckle.
  • The bar is comfortable to wear, doesn’t irritate the skin. A soft velour material is on the inside of each cuff which also is good for absorption of sweat.
  • Each cuff is secured by Velcro, for a comfortable fit. But the cuffs are secured to the bar by a heavy stitching.

What I didn’t like about the Spreader Bar…..

  • That the ball gag was just a little to big. We had to punch a few extra holes in it to make it feel more comfortable. I did notice with my experience that if the ball wasn’t centered that one side would “pinch” the corner of my mouth and make it a little raw.
  • I do have a concern about the cleaning of the ball gag since the ball is movable and is secured on a section of leather material. I wonder about mold or bacteria growing after the material remains wet and/or air dries.
  • The mask is a kind of cheesy, more like a cheap little add-on. It is thin, light shines through, but not easy to detect items.
  • Not sure how one cleans the bar.

 

Would I recommend this Spreader Bar kit?

I would have to say yes. Because it is worth the price (less than $20) The bar is sturdy, durable and covered in a thick and comfortable nylon material. The ball gag has breathable holes, thick material and is unlikely to fall apart quickly. The bar is comfortable to wear, it doesn’t irritate my skin. Although I did find that using this spreader is hard on the hamstring muscles if the muscles are tight. Start stretching them out before using to prevent leg cramp!

The company offers a 30 day hassle free return policy.

You can listen to my audio review here

[Disclaimer: I received the product complimentary for reviewing purposes. The blog post may contain affiliate links]

Packing Cubes Set Travel Luggage Organizers [Product Review]

I’m traveling to New Orleans in a few weeks, flying with Spirit Airlines. I read that they have some specific rules about luggage. I’m only going for 4 days, but we know that most of us have to pack everything but the kitchen sink in our luggage.

How am I gonna fit everything into a 16X14X12 size carry-on bag?

I researched and found that lots of travelers are using the idea of package cubes to organize their carry-on. Could this really work? Doesn’t that add extra space? Well I wanted answers, plus I wanted to try and pack as much as I can into just one bag.

I shopped around locally to find the package cubes. The box stores sold the cubes for around $24.99-29.99 for just three of them. With my WeekEight Packing Cubes Set Travel Luggage Organizer Bags I received 3 Cubes 3 Pouches for $29.99. That was worth it to me. I figured I can use the small laundry bag for my dirty intimidates and just repack the rest of the clothes in to the cubes when I return home.

What I¬†didn’t like¬†about the¬†Packing Cubes Set Travel Luggage Organizers:

  • Is that they are NOT waterproof. I did test out the bags with my socks inside. I dropped them into¬†the sink of water. Sadly, my socks got wet. I even had to ring out one sock because it was so wet.
  • The zippers on the cubes & bags seem a bit weak, appear to be easily broken. I recommend handling with care, maybe don’t over pack the cubes to prevent breaking the zipper.

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What I did like about the Packing Cubes Set Travel Luggage Organizers:

  • You receive three packing cubes and three laundry bags. The cubes are more like mini suitcases to organize your clothes in. The laundry bags are smaller and not as expandable as the cubes, but still have some room.¬† I recommend the laundry bags for socks, undies.
  • The price, you get more for the amount you pay. I’ve seen some cubes where there are only three of them for the same price.
  • The luggage organizers come in 6 different colors.
  • The cubes have handles on them so they can be carried individually if necessary.
  • There is no odor with these organizers. I have read in some other reviews that they had a musky, moldy smell. But mine do not. I would recommend washing them anyway. Yes they are washable and that’s a plus.
  • The cubes have two zippers, in case one stops working. The laundry bags only have one zipper.

I do like these organizers. I would recommend these for travel. Inexpensive price and you should get a few good uses with them as long as you don’t over-pack them. I’m happy with my purchase and they worked perfectly for my weekend trip.

 

 

Three in a Stall [MM120]

[The following story is a work of fiction, it was inspired by an actual event. The following story has material that some may find upsetting, disturbing. The following story has subject material about FMM sex, sex while on drugs & alcohol, bisexuality]

 

I had been to this club before, looking for my friends I stood there with my drink. Adam & his friend Ken walked up to me. We hugged.

“Hey! What’s going on? Who ya here with?”

“Oh myself now, looking for my friends. We were suppose to meet here tonight, but I haven’t seen them yet.”

“Well you can sit with us until you find your friends.”

“Oh Ok. Thanks.”

We made our way back through the crowded bar to their table. They ordered more drinks and shots for us. The alcohol seemed to hit me faster than it¬†typically does. I felt pretty good. The music was good, there was a good vibe in the air and I felt a little sexy. Adam looked over at me “wanna do a bump?”

I had done cocaine before, it was the one big high. Expensive, but the high was incredible and sex was so intense. I smiled. “Sure. Why not?”

“That a girl! I’m going into the men’s bathroom, if I don’t come straight out, that’s the signal to come in.”

Ken had returned as we were standing up to leave. Ken looked at Adam “Where you two off too?”

Adam said “we’re gonna do a bump, come on.” I’ve known this guys only from the club scene. I wasn’t concerned about anything, besides that I was feeling the effects of the booze. Adam walked into the mens bathroom and Ken soon followed. I waited about a second to two and dipped inside to the last stall in the men’s bathroom. Adam was opening a baggie of the white powder on to the top of the toilet paper dispenser. Ken kept look out at the door. Adam formed one line. “Ladies, first.”

I took his rolled up bill and snorted only half when my nostril started to sting. I stopped he said “you ok?”

“Yeah, I guess I don’t do it often enough.”

Ken closes the bathroom door, walked into the stall, closed that door. “Hey, lemme do a bump off your tits.”

I stood there for a second. “NO!” With a chuckle in my voice. He didn’t force the issue. Ken fixed himself & Adam two huge lines. Snorted them. Ken opened the stall door, walked out. I knew that Adam was interested in me, but I wasn’t too interested in him. He was really just that friend who is always in the friend zone. Adam caught my eye, he leaned toward me to kiss me. I accepted his lips on mine. I immediately felt the heat in between my legs. I wanted more, but he already had ideas of his own. He tried to lock the stall door but Ken had walked back to us “Hey are you guys…coming?”

“Not yet.” Adam laughs. “Get in here.”

A few seconds of awkwardness soon changed into a heated threesome in the stall. Adam unzipped his pants and Ken followed his cue. I squatted down, taking turns sucking their cocks. Adam’s cock is larger and skinnier, his hand is on my head, his fingers twisted in my hair. Ken seemed fascinated with what I was doing to Adam’s cock. He squats down next to me, looking at me and I slowly move away from Adam and Ken starts to suck his cock, while he strokes his. As Ken is sucking on Adam, standing up I kiss Adam as he lifts up my mini skirt. He pulls at my pantyhose with both hands he tore a hole in them. Ken pulls at the hose, his tongue splits my lips open, sliding into my now aching pussy. I fall back against the stall wall as I feel Adam tugging at my blouse trying to free my breast. His hands grab one of my mounds and he feeds hungrily on my nipple. His tongue flicks back & forth across it as his other hand squeezes my other tit. Ken’s tongue working hard on my clit. I feel his finger thrust inside me as his lips tighten around my clit. I can’t move, my ruined pantyhose around my ankles and the waves of pleasure & lust overcome me again & again. I completely lost in the moment.penis, lipstick, sassycat3000, latina, sexblogger

Ken fingers me more, licking up my juices and then turns to Adams cock again. As Adam continues to fondle my tits, he reaches down and grabs at Ken’s wrist. Ken slides his fingers out and Adam bends down to suck my juices off Ken’s fingers. I remember watching that and thinking “Oh my fucking god! I’m super turned on now. This feels fucking amazing.”

Ken stands up and all three of us are looking at each other. I reach out to stroke both of their cocks, only for a few minutes. When Adam whispers “I wanna fuck you! Can I fuck you?” I smile and nod. His hands on my waist, gently turns me around to face the toilet. My first thought was he was going to shove my face in the water, but I put my hands up on the wall to brace myself. “Wait, wait a second.” Ken slams the toilet seat cover down and quickly sits down. I’m looking at Ken when I feel Adam’s cock slam into my wet pussy. My eyes closed, drifting into a state of ecstasy I feel Ken exposing my tits to his smooth moist lips, both his hands firmly holding them as Adam pounds my pussy. I must have started to get loud because I heard Ken telling me to be quiet. We heard what might have been pounding on the bathroom door, but Adam had ahold of my waist hammering my pussy hard & fast. I heard his breath quicken and he pulls out comes over to the front of me and explodes all over my tits. Ken whispers “sit on my cock!”

So I do. He quickly starts sucking off Adam’s dripping cock. Sitting on Ken’s cock I’m grinding on him, feeling Adams cum starting to melt and run down my cleavage. Ken’s pumping me hard. I feel another wave of orgasms coming over me. A loud moan escape my mouth. I see Adam zipping up his jeans as he’s looking at me have my orgasm. He smiles a huge cheesy grin. Reaches down to pinch one of my nipples, Ken’s hands are on my ass just pumping me, when he pushes me up from him as he shots his load on the both of us. I can hardly stand, Adam grabs me to hold me up, as I try to get dressed again. I used my shredded pantyhose as a rag to try to wipe off Ken’s cum. I lean over to clean off his cock like he cleaned Adam. I licked most of the excess off, but he had most of the cum on the bottom of his shirt. I pulled my mini skirt down stuffed my tits back into my bra. Ken tucked his skirt into his pants. Adam left first, then me, Ken followed. We quickly checked our look in the mirror when the pounding on the bathroom door was forceful. Adam said “Ken & I will cause a distraction and you leave the club out of the emergency exit.” I must have had a worried look when Ken kissed my cheek “we’ll be fine if we see your friends will tell them you left.” I nodded when Adam unlocked the men’s bathroom door.¬†He & Ken pushed into the men trying to get in as I squeezed by and ran to the side emergency exit door.

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My First Giveaway!

That’s right.

I feel like I have moved up into the big league now. It’s a bit scary too. I was approached by an Amazon company called Sexy Slave, if I would be willing to host a giveaway.

Sure. Ya I know. But hey what a better way to get my feet wet?

I really wanted the experience of the how-to’s. So, I’m not gonna ask you to bend over backwards and twist into a pretzel. If you’re interested in the prize, enter to win. It’s that simple.

What’s the Prize?

An 11-piece Under Bed Bondage Ankle Wrist Cuff Restraint Set

Sexy Slave is providing the restraint kit that¬†fits underneath any sized bed and reaches around to firmly cuff your partner’s wrists and ankles. It is perfect for anyone who can’t decide whether their partner looks prettier spread-eagle on the bed or bend over in the armchair, or on the dinner table for bedroom wild fun.

Included in this prize:

  • 4 Wrist/Ankle Padded Cuffs.
  • 4 Adjustable Straps.
  • 1 Ball Gag.
  • 1 Whip.
  • 1 Blindfold.

 

ENTER TO WIN!

11-Piece Restraints Kit Giveaway by Sexy Slave

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Erotica for Women and Couples [Review]

During the day, I’m normally home alone. That’s when I like to enjoy my “me-time.” I have some links saved for some of the porn videos that I like. I’m not a woman who gets upset if my man watches porn. I am also not a woman who needs a specific type of porn to get off. I just click on a few videos and see where those led me too.frolicme.com

I know there are women who prefer to read erotica and watch the soft, classy erotica, not the hardcore sometimes brutal sex videos that are made by men for me. When I was asked to review the website called Frolicme.com. What I found inside website was pretty amazing for a small startup business that was launched in 2014 by Anna Richards.

Inside FrolicMe.com

  • You will find a bit of everything in this website. There are 6 main pages; Updates which gives the recent erotic videos. Erotic films is¬† the library of videos with a brief summary underneath, the time length, model’s name and the content of the video. I haven’t found any videos that over 30 minutes long. Stories page which displays the most recent written erotica. You have the option of reading the written story or to watch the video. At the bottom of the story there is the author’s name and a link to them. You can click to the main author’s page which listed all of them. There are several different authors with their bios, stories listed along with their websites. There is also a partnership with lovehoney.com exclusive discounts for Frolicme members. The magazine page is full of interesting articles, sexy erotic photos and what I really thought was cool is the confession page. You can submit your very own confession or fantasy for publication on the magazine page. At the bottom of each page you’ll find lots of links to same main pages that are on top. In addition to some good¬†general¬†information about membership and about the creator/owner of the website Anna.
  • The videos are amazing to watch. There’s relaxing, chill out music playing in the beginning, fades out and then fades in to the sounds of moans & heavy breathing. They are professional and the models are beautiful. There are videos of male/female solo, threesomes, lesbians, anal with some bdsm mixed in, just a bit of everything in there. Anna gives her brief¬†written summary under¬†the videos, however you have the option of reading the full story in addition watching the video which was created from the story. ¬†The pages have full stories in addition to the erotic video along with the photo gallery. There are new videos uploaded weekly. The videos have different options for downloading each film from 360p HD through to the highest quality 1080p HD. The photos are also available for members to download.

The Design

The website is very pretty in pink. It gives you a soft, feminine feeling when you view it. There are three main colors. Pink for most¬†the links, black text with a white background. It’s simple. The site itself is very easy, simple to find your way around. Some things overlap, but that’s not overly noticeable or bothersome. Members have the option of leaving comments on videos and stories, however there is no members directory. You can not click on a member’s profile name. I don’t think members are not there to necessarily interact with each other. The¬†Frolicme.com states it can be viewed on almost all devices and members can download videos and photos from those devices.

Membership

Frolicme.com is based in England. There may be a variation due to the international exchange rates. Membership for Frolicme.comWhen you sign up for the newsletter you will receive a free video for your viewing. Which I think is a great little thank you gift for subscribing to the newsletter. It may also peek enough curiosity to sign up for a membership. There is even an option to upgrading your account if you wish to do so.

You can only view certain articles in the magazine section of the website. Members only get full access to all pages, stories and video and galleries. A non-member can see the photos but can not enlarge them like members can.

Overall

Anna Richards has created a classy, sexy erotic website for women and couples. It’s all pretty much straight forward navigating through the website.¬†Some¬†erotica¬†is written by Anna¬†in addition to¬†several¬†published¬†authors. The erotica is all original content and can not (should not) be found anywhere else but on Frolicme.com.¬†The videos and the stories to go hand & hand. Works great for those who want to read or who are visual. With the other authors she has submitting their work, there should always be some¬†hot & steamy scenes and stories.¬†¬†Anna has put her heart into Frolicme.com and I can see that. The site shows sexual intercourse, love-making¬†in a classy, seductive and romantic way. There are no seedy or violent, demeaning videos here. I like that the site has¬†incorporated the option of buying sex toys from lovehoney.com.

[Note:  Ordering is made easy, by allowing you to select your location like the US or UK and that specific Lovehoney.com page loads there for you].

That way if let’s say my spouse & I are members, watching a video or reading a story together and we get brave and decide to order a sex toy on the impulse, it’s that easy to do. I can see that bringing some spice back into a relationship.

The site is full of beautifully taken erotic photos of nude and semi-nude models. All the media is HD and professional . Photos can be enlarged as well.

There are excerpts from the author’s books, a promo for the author’s work. There are links to buy the books and the authors social media.

The magazine section is a source of articles about sex, topics that provoke thought in the reader. Members can leave comments.

Frolicme.com offers an affiliate program for those interested.

The One Thing I Would Suggest

  • There are some internet¬†photos used¬†in the sidebar¬†(that are¬† assumed to be in the public domain). That’s great, nothing wrong with that. Why not ask for photo submissions from some of the Sex Bloggers community or amateur photographers?¬†¬†Offer something similar to the author’s section. A brief¬†bio page or even a paragraph of the photographer, model, sex blogger. There are some really beautifully erotic photographs taken by some amateur photographers that would love some possible exposure.

Frolicme.com is one of the finalists for this year‚Äôs 2017 XBIZ awards for Erotic Site of the Year.¬†This says a lot for an independent startup business like this one. Frolicme.com is running against some big names in the adult film industry such as; NubileFilms.com, EroticaX.com, Babes.com. The quality of film, stories and galleries are professional, all original content written by several different published authors in addition to Anna’s own material throughout the site. I wish Frolicme.com a congratulations on their second nomination for this competition and wishing them all the luck to win!
[Disclaimer: I received this product at a discounted or complimentary price for reviewing purposes. This will not influence my opinion or experience of this product. The blog post may or may not contain affiliate links. My apologizes to Anna Richards for the delay in this review. Thank you for your patience.]

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